Love Psychology

Love is an art. You must first learn to love yourself before you have the ability to love others. Those who love others will always be loved. Those who respect others will always respect them! You must learn to think from other people's perspective and look at problems from the perspective of others. Conflicts are often caused by differences in your own ideas. If you learn to think from other people's perspective, it will be easier to think clearly about unnecessary problems. In the process of practice, we must constantly improve ourselves and work hand in hand with our spouse to spend the rest of our lives together.

I once thought that love was like buying a lottery ticket, an event with extremely small probability that could not be met or sought. However, love is an art that requires both theory and practice. The most important thing is to understand that only by loving yourself can you be able to love others and receive love.

The famous philosopher Martin Buber once said that there are two kinds of relationships: me and it, and me and you. When we use a person as a tool to achieve our goals, then, no matter how lofty and great the goal seems, the relationship is a "me and it" relationship. In this relationship, "I" is the only subject, and "it" is the object that "I" need to achieve my goals. In the words of existential philosophy, I am the subject, and the other party becomes the "other." Just imagine, the person who will accompany you throughout your life treats you as an object and the other. Who would be willing?

When I was in college, there was a public course called "The Psychology of Love." Everyone flocked to this course. I don't know if everyone learned anything, but being able to be single and getting high marks are the reasons why this course is so popular. I didn't grab this course, but it just allowed me to read some of this book and learn some knowledge. Love and marriage are both staged products in our growth process, and they are also things we study and should learn throughout our lives. The highest state of love is not that one party pays endlessly for the other in exchange for reward, but that you enrich my life and I enrich your life. Before two people meet, they are two people. After meeting, they become not one, but one and a half.

Love and marriage are arts in life, which require the joint efforts of participants. There will be crises, stability, and surprises in the process. How to communicate, understand and trust each other in life, and create a normal and positive art that pleases both parties. Then create beauty and eliminate bitterness. The way to solve the puzzle is right there

This book is very comprehensive, and many points are similar to my own situation. Although the author is from the United States, the case examples, data analysis and cultural differences may be different. But it is still a book on sexual relations that is worth learning. You will find a lot of your shadow in it! You will also understand what love is, and the lifelong lessons that people need to learn - only by loving yourself can you love others from the heart.

Love is wonderful and complicated. Women's psychology is unpredictable to men, and men's straightforward thinking often makes women uncomfortable. Therefore, in love, there are always all kinds of small frictions and misunderstandings that can wear away the love between each other. But these contradictions are not irreconcilable, just like friendship and family affection. As long as you find the right way to adjust the contradictions, love can continue smoothly for a long time. This book provides various methods from many aspects to help us improve the quality of love.

Whether it is love or family affection, we should love well, not come here admiringly when we are in glory, and not turn around and leave when we are at trough. When you don't feel love in love, please remember to get out of it.

This book helped me understand what love is and how to understand and tolerate it? How to do anything with the person you love? One issue to consider is family. It doesn't matter whether the family is rich or not, as long as you know how to love, work hard and love you. I hope readers can truly understand and reflect a person's pursuit and realization of the other half. They are just accidental. I don't know how long I have been with him. I know that I will not hurt or force the person I like. It is so important to me that I cannot make up for the loss of love for her. Just like the true love mentioned in this book, see what comes true, face it, pursue it, face it bravely, love boldly, and realize it boldly. This is what I came to a conclusion after reading this book. Whether you are talking about love with them, don't think that you have not understood or even tolerated her, then it does not mean that you have truly loved her. She can give a lot to you in her life, but in her heart, she feels You are a person worthy of trust, worthy of understanding, knowing how to tolerate, and worthy of loving her. That's all. If you really love him, then love with your heart and feel it with your heart. Our greatest mother's love. Cherish her, love her, and care for her. No one can understand the meaning of psychology and the understanding of love. Read more, the book Love Psychology, it will inspire you a lot, and it will be of great help to everyone.

It is very well written, with detailed explanations on the emergence of love, the maintenance of intimate relationships, and the mode of getting along. After reading this book, the most important understanding for me is that I understand why I am always on the giving side in the process of love, and how to deal with this situation. I always hope to be good to my partner in exchange for her being good to me. The most fundamental reason for this is that we have never received satisfied love before, which leads us to keep giving to get the imaginary feelings in our hearts. Regarding this phenomenon, we need to reduce dependence. In an intimate relationship, the less you rely on your partner, the more you have the initiative. If you don't stop giving, you are actually giving the initiative to the other person in disguise and reducing your own value.

Everyone longs for a lasting love, and lasting love requires various tests.

Every family has a different way of getting along with each other, and everyone has different ideas. Everyone longs to be cared for and loved, but the most important thing is to be independent and outstanding. Self-love is the basis for loving others. This is what I gained from reading this book.

I don't know if it's useful or not, but I will use my life to experience it.

Love is a kind of ability, but also an art. Only by constantly learning and training the ability to love ourselves and others, and continuing a lifetime of learning and training, can we understand the true meaning of love!

"Those who are willing do not need to be taught, but those who are not willing cannot be taught" is so popular that it is easy for people to think that love is instinct rather than a skill, especially loving as you expect it to be is an art that is close to the Tao. Some people like to compare cats with their mothers. However, this is qualitatively different from the role of a partner. A partner is not a cat, let alone a mother. What you know about cats is to the extent that you can understand them, and to the extent that you cannot understand them, you will naturally not be able to understand them if you do not understand cat language and are not born as cats. There are things about cats that you can't understand, let alone more advanced and complex companions? Your partner is an independent individual. How can he be as in control as a cat, doing everything just to please you? Mom is willing to care for everything about you with infinite patience. That's because she is a mother, but her partner is not. Childbirth will permanently change part of the mother's brain structure, but love will not, not to mention that the brain structures of men and women are inherently different? The world in our eyes and the other person in our eyes are always a collection of our physical feelings and experiences. They are relative reality, not absolute reality. Obviously, the conflict between the two parties is not about who is right or wrong, but whether the two parties are willing to lower the "I" and improve the "we". Falling in love is always easy, but falling in love is always difficult. And among these difficulties, apart from the principled, huge economic, and major physical ones, many times a change of thought can bring light, but this change of thought can be the difference between happiness and pain.

After reading this book, I have further expanded my view of emotions. The differences between men and women in relationships are very obvious, and there are many opinions that I agree with. When it comes to relationships, many people prefer to be themselves, but being yourself does not mean that you can do whatever you want. Relationships also require skills. If you can use the other half's thinking to look at problems so that both people can find a comfortable way to get along, why not do it. Therefore, communication in relationships is also indispensable.

Although the story is short and simple, I have to say that many of the viewpoints are quite reasonable and in-depth. Grab what suits you, practice and improve your own view of love, and travel in the ocean of happiness.

I have finished reading this book, but I understand those situations, and I feel that at this time, I can say again, "I am willing to give all my love to you. It is worthy of being taken away, but the result is regrettable." I hope that my friends or classmates and I can be such good friends and keep silent about each other.

Love is an art. I have been single for many years and lack the artistic ability. I long for her in life but do not take the initiative to fight for it. I love her but am not satisfied with her. Maybe there is a contradiction in my heart, or the shackles in my heart have not yet been opened. Only by loving yourself can you love others better, forgive you, me and others, and only then can you live a happy life [laughs]

After listening to it, I may not be so concerned, but I am more determined that I don't like this point of view, and I have not received any particularly substantial changes. Most likely it is because I have been sad for too long and am not interested in anything, so I am unable to take action to improve my current situation.

Learn to love yourself before loving others, and don't lose yourself in the process of loving others. Love requires sincerity and rationality.

Although I have never been in love, I also yearn for love. At the same time, I know how rare love is, which leads me to have a bad view of love. But this book tells me what love is and how to get love. Although I don't agree with some of the content, this book is very good

Read it on November 19, 2020. I have benefited a lot and learned a lesson.

After reading it, I have a better understanding of love and a deeper understanding of the criteria for choosing a mate. All in all, love is based on individual self-love and independence, the encounter and fusion of two independent souls. Love is an additive to life. Individuals should better understand themselves, improve themselves, and develop themselves in overcoming the setbacks of love.

Self-love is the foundation of his love. Frustration of attraction and considering issues from the other person's level are the parts of this book that left a deep impression on me. It should also be a gain.

This book "Love Psychology" introduces in detail some problems and some common routines that people often encounter in love. The Suspension Bridge Effect should be impressive to everyone who reads it. It means that two people are more likely to have a good impression and spark love when they are in a tense, fearful or other extreme atmosphere. In fact, we don't just need to understand him. If we can learn to use this principle and even intentionally construct scenes about this principle, it will definitely make our love journey smoother. This is a good and practical book.

This book gave me a deeper understanding of love. The love it mentioned is not only sweet and romantic, but also includes contradictions and troubles. I like the analysis of various love issues in the book, which makes me understand that love needs to be managed carefully. Moreover, I think the content in the book on how to improve the ability to maintain intimate relationships is very practical. In short, this is a book worth reading and recommended to friends who are interested in love.

Novice comments This book is not long, but it took me half a month to read it. Some parts made it difficult for me to continue reading, but many of the problems that arise in love are expressed through examples and the solutions are explained in the simplest way. The ending is thought-provoking: Love is an art, but more people often think that love is the simplest and easiest to obtain.

I endured the pain and watched it. The whole process of watching it was filled with memories.

General, the nature of love, some precautions for love, and common phenomena, very good, love needs to be learned, love yourself first before loving others, it is relatively fair, and the effort and reward must be proportional. When you can't feel the other person's respect for you, you can consider giving up, because love is relatively equal, and there are many ways to express love, but you have to believe that love can be felt