
The Ups and Downs of Marriage
婚姻那些事儿
- Status
- Completed
- Length
- 227k Words
- Genre
- Modern Romance
- Subgenre
- Workplace & Marriage
- Updated
- 6y ago
- Source
- Fanqie
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It vividly depicts the various aspects of love and marriage, which arouses great feelings for those of us who are already in the grave of love.
The author describes the character's transformation process very well and very realistically! Falling in love and living in marriage are indeed two different things. Some people are suitable for falling in love and others for living together, but it is fate for two people to be together! Only by cherishing, caring for, trusting, and maintaining this relationship, your life will get better and better in the future!
I like this novel very much. The plot is compact and the chaotic marriage life is very realistic. If it were a TV series, I probably wouldn't have the patience to watch it. But I couldn't stop reading this novel. It made me burst into tears. Except for some indescribable parts that are too explicit, everything else is quite good. Compared with the trivial matters in real life and this novel, I instantly felt relaxed. I was actually following this novel in the middle of the night, haha
I finally understand why the rating is so high. This is the second best book I have ever read.
After reading this book, I felt relieved and regretful. It is a very realistic family ethics novel. The parents' short-term ideas and lack of daily necessities are not enough for love. A person's growth environment and life philosophy formed under different living conditions gradually reveal differences in the increasingly dull family life. In mutual integration, understanding and tolerance are particularly important. Cherish what you have at the moment!
It truly reflects the ups and downs of married life. I am a married woman. After reading this story, I felt that it was written about my own kind of struggle 🤦. That kind of struggle while compromising, while compromising while being dull, is a true portrayal of married life. No matter how beautiful love is, it can't compete with the daily necessities of life, including parents and in-laws. The love between two people, with the interference of the two families, gradually became more and more secular. Then, in the contradiction, compromise and struggle, the lover turned into a relative.
Witnessing the ups and downs of love, from roses to tea, rice, oil and salt, the two people help each other. The repeated misunderstandings and setbacks make their emotions deeper and more true. Perhaps, this is love.
The writing is real and touching, the living conditions of ordinary people, the characters are vividly depicted, the plot is like a true portrayal of the people and friends that the reader knows, a true portrayal of ordinary people, the plot is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and is close to the real life conditions.
I like this book very much and the author's writing style. It's better than pure romance novels with clumsy writing. It's very real and gives the atmosphere and appearance of real life. It's emotionally entangled and there aren't so many perfect love plots. All kinds of perfect love are very fake.
This book touched me very much. It truly shows the various problems and challenges in marriage. Just like Su Yang and Xia Yin, differences in wedding customs caused conflicts. I also have friends who have disagreements with their significant other for similar reasons. This made me understand how important communication and understanding are in marriage. Moreover, the book also mentions the issue of trust, which I agree with very much. If there is not enough trust between husband and wife, many small misunderstandings will be magnified and eventually affect the relationship. Therefore, I think this book is not only a story about marriage, but also some inspirations and reminders for us to better manage our emotional lives.