[Known style of painting]
Xin Weiyang: Sorry, I am cold to women.
Yan Rushun: What a coincidence, I am also cold towards men.
[Wedding style]
Yan Rushun: If you promise not to touch me, I will marry you.
Xin Weiyang: What if you take the initiative to find me?
Yan Rushun: That's impossible.
[Painting style of giving birth to a baby]
Xin Weiyang: Didn't you say you want a child and need my help?
Yan Rushun: Well, let's do in vitro fertilization!
Xin Weiyang: This...
In short, this is the daily story of an ascetic couple who thought they were indifferent, getting married, having a baby (actually a baby was born?), And battling wits and courage with the mother-in-law and mother-in-law while raising children full-time.
Reader comments
After reading this, I am a bit afraid of marriage and childbearing. In the story of the novel, the heroine and the hero went on a blind date because their parents urged them to get married. They met by chance. Later, after they considered it, they hit it off and got married immediately after knowing each other for about a month. (For unmarried men and women, it is best to observe the couple. Whether the other party is suitable for you is the person you really want to find, don't get married just for the sake of getting married). After the marriage, there are many conflicts between the two families. After the male and female protagonists get married, their parents will also use their own methods to interfere with the young couple to have children. For example, if they want to live with the young couple, Of course, the heroine herself likes children very much, and then the heroine is pregnant with the baby. After the child is born, Xin's mother, the heroine's parents, and the heroine and others start parenting education. There are the opinions and practices of the heroine and Xin's mother on the different concepts of parenting. There is the heroine who wants to be a full-time mother, and the heroine's mother thinks that this is inappropriate and quarrels with her daughter. There is also the hero who is busy with work and did not participate in the childcare after the child was born. At the same time, he faced conflicts between his wife and his mother and did not want to go home to escape. The heroine needs to vent her conflict with her mother-in-law and need to seek help from friends. The content of the entire novel is very real, vividly showing the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the conflict between the older generation's parenting concepts and the new concepts, the embarrassment between new fathers and new mothers about educational concepts, as sons, and the embarrassment between mother and wife because of the gap. Therefore, unmarried men and women must be careful when getting married. If you get married, you will need to find a suitable partner and take on the corresponding responsibilities. There are many factors to consider: such as financial pressure and conflict of ideas, imbalance of housework and childcare responsibilities, blurred boundaries of the original family, loss of personal space and self, etc. I am not saying that I don't advocate marriage, but I just say that it depends on personal choice. If you want to get married, then find a suitable marriage and take on the corresponding responsibilities. If you decide not to get married, it is not bad to be single. [Love]
I feel that the process of becoming a full-time heroine is a bit difficult to accept. I once quit my job as a backup, and the process was also difficult. I was very happy at first, but then I became panicked. But I always insisted on studying for the exam and took the professional certificate. I think it's a pity that the heroine didn't take the hero's advice and go to graduate school and then become a faculty member at her school. I think my mentality will be much better if I can interact with different colleagues at work. In addition, despite the trivialities of my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I personally think my children's education is relatively okay.
When the heroine was in kindergarten, she later switched to home education. Let's talk about her emotions. My child just entered kindergarten and often got sick. I was also very worried. Later, I communicated with my friends that this is also a process of stimulating the spontaneous formation of the child's immune system. After entering the senior class, he got much better. I can also feel that every time I get sick, my child becomes more sensible. (In kindergarten, more emphasis is placed on physical exercise, and outdoor time is also consciously increased.) After entering first grade, my physical fitness has improved a lot. I also think that kindergarten is very good at cultivating children's social skills.
A Leaf Knows Autumn objectively describes the social phenomena of this era through Yan Rushun's personal experience. The image of Yan Rushun is different from the glamorous appearance of ordinary heroines in the eyes of outsiders, but has more inner firmness. The attitude towards elders is a reflection of reality. There is a core of firmness in the surface compromise, which is her brilliance.
I like this book very much. The author truly shows the various situations of a small family after having children. It is very real and contagious. To raise an outstanding child, the mother's dedication and persistence are very important. Of course, first of all, the mother must be the wise mother in the article.
Not bad, a quite simple and close-to-life novel. Plain and simple is the truth, recommended
Parents only have enough food, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. Raising children is really a difficult task.
Real emotions! Although it seemed terrible at first, but after seeing some results, I can only sigh that educating children is not easy.
The female protagonist works full-time and then finds several jobs that are very realistic. She has tried this and that. Fortunately, the male protagonist is sober because she feels that her mother-in-law is that kind of realistic person.
After reading this, I feel that this mother's parenting style is really cutting-edge. It's not easy. It takes a lot of effort to raise a child who is excellent in all aspects.
It's quite real, close to life, and the battle of wits and courage is fun.
The writing is very meaningful and the text is concise. Although the first half is about flirting with handsome guys and the second half is about parenting, it is a bit off topic. After reading Tomato for several years, I have never seen such a profound content! But I'm afraid, as Mei Bai said in the article, whether your subject matter will be liked by the public. Come on!
A very good book, well worth reading. Especially the content about parent-child education is very inspiring.
It's very real, the plot is detailed, and the writing is great. Write more, write more novels like this. Recommend!
A story about growing up as a "full-time mother": mixed joys and sorrows.
The content is very close to life.
It's okay if parents are short-tempered
A good article worth reading.
Not a very good education method, I admire it
A bit interesting, not bad
It's a very good book, keep reading 😁
After reading this, I feel like I need to change the way I accompany my children.
I have completely gotten the three golden chapters mentioned by Mei Bai. The undercurrent between the two in the previous article is very eye-catching. The parents who get married and have children in the second article are really realistic. If the mother had not had a baby, she would have just read the first article and left. In fact, their child-rearing process is really worth learning. How to raise a child is really difficult.
It's not easy to be a qualified stay-at-home mother
It's so realistic, five-star praise, highly recommended.
The subject matter of the first chapter is novel, but the later chapters are about getting along with family members, which is a bit trivial. The writing on parenting is very good, if you need it, you can read it.
The writing is humorous and very life-like.
The story is very attractive and beautiful.
It is relevant to life and the author must have had real experience. It can be a good reference for novice mothers to learn from.
It's very interesting, I have the urge to read it in one sitting.
This book is really good. It vividly displays the love, anxiety and entanglement that all mothers have for their children. A great mother.
After reading this, I am a bit afraid of marriage and childbearing. In the story of the novel, the heroine and the hero went on a blind date because their parents urged them to get married. They met by chance. Later, after they considered it, they hit it off and got married immediately after knowing each other for about a month. (For unmarried men and women, it is best to observe the couple. Whether the other party is suitable for you is the person you really want to find, don't get married just for the sake of getting married). After the marriage, there are many conflicts between the two families. After the male and female protagonists get married, their parents will also use their own methods to interfere with the young couple to have children. For example, if they want to live with the young couple, Of course, the heroine herself likes children very much, and then the heroine is pregnant with the baby. After the child is born, Xin's mother, the heroine's parents, and the heroine and others start parenting education. There are the opinions and practices of the heroine and Xin's mother on the different concepts of parenting. There is the heroine who wants to be a full-time mother, and the heroine's mother thinks that this is inappropriate and quarrels with her daughter. There is also the hero who is busy with work and did not participate in the childcare after the child was born. At the same time, he faced conflicts between his wife and his mother and did not want to go home to escape. The heroine needs to vent her conflict with her mother-in-law and need to seek help from friends. The content of the entire novel is very real, vividly showing the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the conflict between the older generation's parenting concepts and the new concepts, the embarrassment between new fathers and new mothers about educational concepts, as sons, and the embarrassment between mother and wife because of the gap. Therefore, unmarried men and women must be careful when getting married. If you get married, you will need to find a suitable partner and take on the corresponding responsibilities. There are many factors to consider: such as financial pressure and conflict of ideas, imbalance of housework and childcare responsibilities, blurred boundaries of the original family, loss of personal space and self, etc. I am not saying that I don't advocate marriage, but I just say that it depends on personal choice. If you want to get married, then find a suitable marriage and take on the corresponding responsibilities. If you decide not to get married, it is not bad to be single. [Love]
I feel that the process of becoming a full-time heroine is a bit difficult to accept. I once quit my job as a backup, and the process was also difficult. I was very happy at first, but then I became panicked. But I always insisted on studying for the exam and took the professional certificate. I think it's a pity that the heroine didn't take the hero's advice and go to graduate school and then become a faculty member at her school. I think my mentality will be much better if I can interact with different colleagues at work. In addition, despite the trivialities of my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I personally think my children's education is relatively okay. When the heroine was in kindergarten, she later switched to home education. Let's talk about her emotions. My child just entered kindergarten and often got sick. I was also very worried. Later, I communicated with my friends that this is also a process of stimulating the spontaneous formation of the child's immune system. After entering the senior class, he got much better. I can also feel that every time I get sick, my child becomes more sensible. (In kindergarten, more emphasis is placed on physical exercise, and outdoor time is also consciously increased.) After entering first grade, my physical fitness has improved a lot. I also think that kindergarten is very good at cultivating children's social skills.
A Leaf Knows Autumn objectively describes the social phenomena of this era through Yan Rushun's personal experience. The image of Yan Rushun is different from the glamorous appearance of ordinary heroines in the eyes of outsiders, but has more inner firmness. The attitude towards elders is a reflection of reality. There is a core of firmness in the surface compromise, which is her brilliance.
I like this book very much. The author truly shows the various situations of a small family after having children. It is very real and contagious. To raise an outstanding child, the mother's dedication and persistence are very important. Of course, first of all, the mother must be the wise mother in the article.
Not bad, a quite simple and close-to-life novel. Plain and simple is the truth, recommended
Parents only have enough food, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. Raising children is really a difficult task.
Real emotions! Although it seemed terrible at first, but after seeing some results, I can only sigh that educating children is not easy.
The female protagonist works full-time and then finds several jobs that are very realistic. She has tried this and that. Fortunately, the male protagonist is sober because she feels that her mother-in-law is that kind of realistic person.
After reading this, I feel that this mother's parenting style is really cutting-edge. It's not easy. It takes a lot of effort to raise a child who is excellent in all aspects.
It's quite real, close to life, and the battle of wits and courage is fun.
The writing is very meaningful and the text is concise. Although the first half is about flirting with handsome guys and the second half is about parenting, it is a bit off topic. After reading Tomato for several years, I have never seen such a profound content! But I'm afraid, as Mei Bai said in the article, whether your subject matter will be liked by the public. Come on!
A very good book, well worth reading. Especially the content about parent-child education is very inspiring.
It's very real, the plot is detailed, and the writing is great. Write more, write more novels like this. Recommend!
A story about growing up as a "full-time mother": mixed joys and sorrows.
The content is very close to life.
It's okay if parents are short-tempered
A good article worth reading.
Not a very good education method, I admire it
A bit interesting, not bad
It's a very good book, keep reading 😁
After reading this, I feel like I need to change the way I accompany my children.
I have completely gotten the three golden chapters mentioned by Mei Bai. The undercurrent between the two in the previous article is very eye-catching. The parents who get married and have children in the second article are really realistic. If the mother had not had a baby, she would have just read the first article and left. In fact, their child-rearing process is really worth learning. How to raise a child is really difficult.
It's not easy to be a qualified stay-at-home mother It's so realistic, five-star praise, highly recommended.
The subject matter of the first chapter is novel, but the later chapters are about getting along with family members, which is a bit trivial. The writing on parenting is very good, if you need it, you can read it.
The writing is humorous and very life-like.
The story is very attractive and beautiful.
It is relevant to life and the author must have had real experience. It can be a good reference for novice mothers to learn from.
It's very interesting, I have the urge to read it in one sitting.
This book is really good. It vividly displays the love, anxiety and entanglement that all mothers have for their children. A great mother.
I like it, it's great, super pretty