Crossroads in Marriage

A person should always be calm and aware of everything. People's hearts are unpredictable, so there are such grudges and grudges. Sometimes it is difficult to live a satisfactory life. You cannot go back to the past, so you can only cherish everything that is important as much as possible.

In fact, Su Rou still cheated on her. She allowed Ye Xin to hug her, pretend to be his girlfriend to attend wedding banquets and friends' gatherings, go to his residence to personally accompany and take care of him for several days, and invite him to hang out and celebrate his birthday. These were all beyond the excuses and reasons that he was her best friend. Being attracted to someone for the first time is understandable and does not count as cheating. But I still have a vague impression afterwards. The second time she had sex while drunk, she actually claimed that she had no memory of it. It was because she was drunk, not in a coma, not to mention that she was still looking back in the video. Many people have been drunk. What a drunk person does is the most authentic self. It is the kind of behavior and language that comes completely from the heart without any responsibilities and restraints. What he says and does is his true self. For example, many people are simply stopped by the other party, but they still continue to drink because they really want to drink at that time. Judging from the damage to Su Rou's clothes, physical injuries, and her performance in the video, she did not make any attempt to resist, which shows that she truly accepts Ye Xin in her heart, so she is willing to have sex with Ye Xin after being drunk. If it were a super disgusting person doing this, a similar drunken scene would definitely involve acts of resistance. It's just that Su Rou, who was sober and rational, rejected Ye Xin because of her marital responsibilities. However, Su Rou later found out that she had been miserably deceived and played by Ye Xin, so she regretted it, so she determined that Su Rou had basically cheated. It was not just mental cheating. Regardless of the constraints of marriage, her true thoughts on the body were active cheating (not to mention drunken sex, allowing the other party to hug her is considered physical cheating. This is not social etiquette, don't laugh at the same time). After being deceived and sobering up, Su Rou did something wrong and found out that the family and marriage around her were good, so she tried her best to save the marriage, and she was even more afraid of covering up her active physical and mental cheating. Even if she would rather just falsely admit that she had an emotional and physical cheating because of loneliness, she had the courage to face other exposed harassers, but she did not dare to admit the existence of Ye Xin. If Bai Wei had not withdrawn in the end to remove his biggest love rival, if there had not been a second child who appeared as a lead, and if Sun Jian still couldn't forget Su Rou in his heart as a motivation, I think Sun Jian and Su Rou would basically have no chance of getting back together.

After reading it, I felt a little depressed, but although many people didn't explain it clearly at the end, I still felt very touched. At the beginning, Ye Xin's abnormal love for Su Rou led to her being raped. The heroine was thinking about it for this family and for her husband's perfect image of herself. She went to see a psychiatrist for a rape. Under layers of traps, and because Sun Jian was busy with work, her relationship became a little dull. Su Rou slowly relaxed under the sugar-coated bombardment of Ye Xin, who pretended to be like an older brother. The heroine has a gentle and kind personality, and is afraid of losing. Her husband and family have a low view of good and evil, so they can be careless and get drunk by others. But fortunately, the heroine is clean and has always loved the hero. This is the most important point, and it is also the reason why Ye Xin wants to get her body and mind. In short, the hero and heroine After going through a lot, the heroine's lies are still forgiven by Sun Jian's love, and they cherish each other even more. I see that the heroine lacks sharpness, is too vigilant, and will not refuse directly, especially when it comes to covering up with countless lies, which is the most annoying. Fortunately, the bottom line is kept. The hero cares too little about his wife, maybe it is true. He cherishes it very much before marriage and does not care after marriage. If the hero is caring enough and discovers that something is wrong with his wife, maybe the heroine will have the courage to tell her. Tell him that when the husband and wife face it together, things will be much simpler. The male protagonist should also be wary of his friends. The heroine was raped because his brother Jiang Wei came to the house and took the opportunity to drug him. As well as all the incidents and excuses after that, it is difficult to stay in love in a marriage. , But you can't do it because you are not strong and smart enough. Spend more time with her, buy her small gifts during the holidays, say some love words, accompany her to relax, protect her, refuse ambiguity, and the most important thing is trust. By the way, Xu Ruyan is really good.

This is my first time to write a book review. I used to read books on other websites casually, and some were not happy to read them after reading them halfway. After reading this novel, I read 3 novels, and they were all good. Especially this book, which took a few days to read. I didn't even read Douyin at night. Although the ending was satisfactory, there are only two words to describe the process of reading, which is terrible. I almost didn't want to read it in the middle of the book. Then I read it like a spoiler and the ending was satisfactory, so I had the confidence to continue reading. I felt very depressed after watching it for the past few days. My mood fluctuated with the plot. Why would such a good woman be framed? Then Su Rou kept telling lies one after another to hide her husband. When they saw the divorce, I thought the story was over. I didn't expect that there would be so many plots later. The key is knowing that the reason for the divorce was constant lies. After the two got back together, Su Rou continued to lie, especially when her own son lied and said it was the wrong one. This writing is a bit funny. Although some details of this book need to be improved, the writing is still very good. I feel that this book may have good results if it is made into a TV series.

I think the ending is good. Why? Because of family. A complete family is unmatched by anything. We voluntarily become husband and wife. From today on, we will jointly shoulder the responsibilities and obligations entrusted to us by marriage: to be filial to our parents, to educate our children, to respect and love each other, to trust and encourage each other, to understand and give in to each other, to help each other, and to love each other for the rest of our lives! From now on, no matter good times or bad, rich or poor, healthy or sick, young or old, we will be in the same boat through thick and thin, share weal and woe, share joys and sorrows, and become lifelong partners! We must stick to today's oath, and we will definitely be able to stick to today's oath! In today's society, how many people can actually do it?

I have finished reading this book, and I feel so depressed that I feel like I have to see a psychiatrist. I just can't figure out whether the heroine is willing to commit suicide or get divorced, without saying who the adulterer is. Is it protection, or is it just a fantasy of a polar bear paradise? I feel like mental cheating is more terrifying than physical cheating. Although I confessed later, my heart aches.

Full five-star rating. This is human nature. Everyone makes mistakes. The key is whether you use lies to deceive after making mistakes or admit your mistakes and choose the truth.

It's great. I watched it in four days. I like the character Bai Wei the most. It's a pity that I didn't design a perfect ending for her. I think it would be great if Sun Jian and Bai Wei got married in the end.

Life is like a dandelion, seemingly free, but often unable to control yourself. There are no ifs in life, only results

Well! After reading this book, I felt that I would lose a few years from my life. I was very depressed throughout the whole process! Although it's frustrating, it makes me want to continue reading sometimes. I'm so confused😣