To explain the characteristics of human nature, first of all, people are eager to have their own desires satisfied. Only when this desire is at least partially satisfied, will we shift our attention away from ourselves and in other directions. This is human nature. Carnegie, the father of the interpersonal relationship course, emphasized this point even more in The Weakness of Human Nature: "People care more about their own illnesses than forty major earthquakes in Africa." People pay more attention to their own affairs than anything else in the world. Everyone thinks they are the most important, and everyone is eager for appreciation in order to affirm themselves and satisfy their spiritual needs. We have had many misunderstandings about this "egoism" of human nature. We have tried our best to suppress our own human needs, thus stifling the creativity that arises from our needs; we have tried our best to suppress the human needs of others, thereby deteriorating normal interpersonal relationships and leading to dissatisfaction, jealousy, and confrontation. In fact, before a man has more energy to pay attention to anything else, he must eat and attend to his own most basic needs.
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