Everything is answered and everything falls into place. "Instead of growing up with Lei Zhiming, it is better to talk to Wang Ju about what is on your mind." The general meaning of this sentence is that we need an emotionally stable lover who is stable, mature, wise, careful, and proactive! Sincerity is always a must-win! You teach her to grow and she says you are old-fashioned and perfect. I liked Lei Zhiming when I was young, but now I like Wang Ju. Maybe this is because I have grown up and finally understand what is appropriate!
This novel and its characters are purely fictitious. Any similarity is purely coincidental and should not be imitated.