The Anti-Marriage Pressure Show: Me, a Post-00s, with a Heart Sealed in Cement

It's just for the sake of demographic dividend. When growing flowers, the least valuable thing is labor force, and it is also labor force that is being crazily exploited.

If the social status quo does not change, fewer and fewer people will get married and have children. The world is exploiting ordinary people. If they can't even afford to get married, they will have a child. It's crazy.

When you are about 40 or 50 years old, your parents are no longer around. At this time, you feel so good that you spend all your money and jump off the building.

Let me tell you a joke. According to the statistics of our county, there are less than ** newborns. This means that primary schools in the countryside will close down in the future. I feel that the cause of this situation is the so-called women's rights, which makes today's boys afraid of marriage.

I just became an adult this year, and my parents began to worry about my future. I had said before that I would never get married, and then they said it was up to me. But as soon as I graduated from high school this year, as soon as the college entrance examination was over, they started talking about me going to college and finding a job, and started to persuade me to work hard, otherwise I would not even be able to find a girlfriend in the future... Me? Obviously I said I wouldn't look for it anymore, but in the end they still said, "Let's continue the incense and so on. So what if I don't continue?" It sounds like I am so good. Even if they call me every day to urge me to get married, I won't do it. Don't talk about social responsibility, just think that I have no morals.

The following are the mental journeys of a girl named Xiaomei at various ages. They are purely fictitious and should not be taken seriously: When she was just sixteen years old, Xiaomei's first love boyfriend, who was in the same class, hurriedly took Xiaomei to eat at a roadside stall in the night market. He took Xiaomei back to his home, and Xiaomei easily handed over his first blood; When she was twenty years old, Xiaomei had a boyfriend from the same university. That boyfriend tried hard to arrange a whole day of romantic dates. After preparing exquisite little gifts, Xiaomei agreed to spend a wonderful night with her boyfriend; At the age of twenty-five, Xiaomei became a white-collar worker in a company, surrounded by many suitors. Xiaomei would not refuse any gifts from her suitors, but she would not agree to any request for dating. Until the married president of the company gave Xiaomei expensive clothes and bags, Xiaomei immediately agreed and handed herself over in the president's office; At the age of thirty-five, Xiaomei's mind was settled, and she went on a blind date with Xiaoming, a forty-year-old senior engineer who worked in the Hsinchu Science Park. Under Xiaomei's brilliant skills over the years, Xiaoming soon fell into it. Xiao Ming always wanted to spend a good night with Xiao Mei, but Xiao Mei said that she wanted to have her first time again on the night of the wedding. Xiao Ming believed it. Then Xiao Ming proposed to Xiao Mei, and Xiao Mei asked Xiao Ming to transfer a house with four bedrooms, three bathrooms and three living rooms in Da'an, Taipei, for her parents and younger brother to live in. In addition, Xiao Ming requested to buy a single-family villa in Tianmu, Taipei, as a new wedding home and have a romantic wedding, so Xiao Ming agreed. In this way, Xiao Ming transferred the Da'an house that he had worked hard to buy and paid off to his father-in-law. Then I used the savings of NT$2 million on hand to hold a romantic wedding. Later, Xiao Ming's old parents emptied their retirement savings of tens of millions of NT dollars to help Xiao Ming pay the down payment for a single-family villa with a price of over 100 million NT dollars. From then on, Xiao Ming worked hard in Hsinchu every day in order to repay the remaining loan. And Xiao Mei works as a full-time housewife in Tianmu, Taipei. Since Xiao Mei and Xiao Ming are separated in two places, So Xiao Mei often went to the gym, and then fell in love with the fitness instructor for a long time, but Xiao Ming had no idea. The above is Xiaomei's mental journey at various ages. P. S. It is better to have a younger girlfriend. The older the girlfriend, the more demanding she is.

Personally, I think marriage is more like a gamble. If you bet right, it will be happiness. If you bet wrong, it will be tragedy. As the saying goes, some people are suitable for falling in love, but when you live alone, you may now feel that he is happy to be with him, and you feel like you want to be with him for the rest of your life. But after getting married, you will face many challenges. From things as small as firewood, rice, oil and salt to house payments and loans, everyone who is married knows it, and those who are not married also know it, but I still want to say one more thing; marriage has good and bad aspects, it is just a different attitude towards life, but I always feel that as long as you feel that you are happy, it is fine. Isn't it just for your own happiness in this life? As the saying goes: As long as you can live up to your own conscience and have a clear conscience, it will be fine. Finally, I wish everyone happiness and happiness]

It's not that I don't want to get married, it's that I really don't have the strength.

I'm told every day that I want you to have a second child. It's annoying to watch. I really just want you to have a second child. Where did you see last time that the conditions for childbirth were relaxed and you can have a child even if you don't get married? It's really outrageous. Just give birth, right? I'm speechless. Anyone can give birth. Will the child be born with a father and a child? I don't know if the one I'm looking at is true.

Being a human being carries with it the responsibility of carrying on the family line. If everyone thinks about being single, then the earth will be destroyed. So don't be arrogant, experts. We need everyone to have a clear life, such as child expenses and house costs plus food and nutrition. If these are not guaranteed, you really can't afford to get married and have children. A house worth 2 million yuan to get married, even if you don't have your parents' property, even if you are a young man, 2 In case of one month, how long does it take to afford a house, and then have a child? It's okay at first. Two thousand a month is enough before the ninth grade of junior high school, except for training and so on. When you get to high school and university, at least one month, tuition, clothing, housing fees, and even military training have to be paid. The child's monthly living expenses are 50,000 per year for the first year, which is more than 300,000. This is still one child, two. . . Poor people really can't afford to have children and get married. Please consider it.