Everyone's life experience is different. We are never qualified to comment on the rights and wrongs of others. Everyone comes to this world with full of hope, and how many people leave with despair. My mother said something, if life does not bring death, why not use your limited life to do things that make you happy? If you are allowed to experience someone else's life, can you live better than her?
This novel and its characters are purely fictitious. Any similarity is purely coincidental and should not be imitated.