Same experience. Different Uzumaki Naruto.
He was cold-blooded and violent since he was a child. He had no friends. He didn't have enough to eat and he didn't have enough clothes to wear. In such an environment, a different Uzumaki Naruto was born.
In this article, Naruto's character has changed a lot. He is stronger than when he was a child in the original work. He has a relatively cold personality. He doesn't like to talk much. He doesn't go dark. He doesn't become a rebellious nin. He was born in ANBU.
It's partial to a harem, but there aren't many female protagonists.
This novel and its characters are purely fictitious. Any similarity is purely coincidental and should not be imitated.