Why Did We Break Up?
About This Novel
"We seemed to have been passionately in love, but we never seemed to understand each other." Any breakup should not only leave pain or doubts about love, but also a growth. People who have experienced a breakup will ask: "Why did we break up?" And it is precisely two people who have experienced the same relationship who will give different answers. Breaking up is so subtle that the authors Mao Lu and Zhao Jiahe came up with the idea of interviewing breakup couples. They solicited information on the Internet, and there were many people who were willing to tell one side of the story, but very few who were willing to tell both sides. After more than three years of persistence, 22 couples who had broken up were finally interviewed. This book will share with you the stories of 15 of them. When both men and women review the love process and tell their true reasons for breaking up, you will be surprised to find that the differences in gender perspectives and ways of thinking make the same relationship take on two completely different aspects, as if the two people are not talking about the same love at all.
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Official(64)Scraped 19h ago
Sometimes, you find out inexplicably that it is good to like someone. When you are not in love, you are unique and shining in the eyes of the other person. But after falling in love, he will become a different person inexplicably. Sometimes I wonder why this is happening, but I always don't express my true thoughts because of face. In short, everything you have becomes unreasonable in the eyes of the other party, and naturally, you are facing a breakup.
It turns out that a lot of love is not that he doesn't love anymore, nor that she doesn't love anymore. But it was a subtle accident and you and I were separated. But even if it were to happen again, it would be a step-by-step repetition. At that moment, fate is fixed, this moment and that moment, treasure and aftertaste.
If I could go back to that time, I would rather we never met. It's not that I regret it. I'm not willing to end like this.
Only the ordinary is true. If you can't stand the ordinary, you won't be able to withstand the waves!
The people in each story are so similar to myself, but yet different. Maybe you are most awake only when you listen to other people's stories.
Everyone wants to do better in love, but the reality is that they like to joke around. There was a misunderstanding at a certain moment, and then we had a grudge. We never quarreled. I don't know why we separated in the end. In the end, I didn't keep him when he left. The dignity I thought I had was actually very stupid.
The most beautiful thing about falling in love is just an interlude. Time cools people's hearts. When love is dull, like a glass of water, when there are problems in love, you must work hard to solve the problems instead of escaping or giving up.
I don't know what kind of person I am in your heart, and I don't know the level of your love for me, but what I want to tell you is that I have no other advantages, but I am loyal to my own choices. I am willing to change my strange personality for you, and I am willing to let you participate in my future. But you don't seem to want to be with me. I wish you happiness.
The most important thing in a relationship is trust
I don't want someone to stand behind me, but I want someone to be by my side. Who is not like this?
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Official(64)Scraped 19h ago
Sometimes, you find out inexplicably that it is good to like someone. When you are not in love, you are unique and shining in the eyes of the other person. But after falling in love, he will become a different person inexplicably. Sometimes I wonder why this is happening, but I always don't express my true thoughts because of face. In short, everything you have becomes unreasonable in the eyes of the other party, and naturally, you are facing a breakup.
It turns out that a lot of love is not that he doesn't love anymore, nor that she doesn't love anymore. But it was a subtle accident and you and I were separated. But even if it were to happen again, it would be a step-by-step repetition. At that moment, fate is fixed, this moment and that moment, treasure and aftertaste.
If I could go back to that time, I would rather we never met. It's not that I regret it. I'm not willing to end like this.
Only the ordinary is true. If you can't stand the ordinary, you won't be able to withstand the waves!
The people in each story are so similar to myself, but yet different. Maybe you are most awake only when you listen to other people's stories.
Everyone wants to do better in love, but the reality is that they like to joke around. There was a misunderstanding at a certain moment, and then we had a grudge. We never quarreled. I don't know why we separated in the end. In the end, I didn't keep him when he left. The dignity I thought I had was actually very stupid.
The most beautiful thing about falling in love is just an interlude. Time cools people's hearts. When love is dull, like a glass of water, when there are problems in love, you must work hard to solve the problems instead of escaping or giving up.
I don't know what kind of person I am in your heart, and I don't know the level of your love for me, but what I want to tell you is that I have no other advantages, but I am loyal to my own choices. I am willing to change my strange personality for you, and I am willing to let you participate in my future. But you don't seem to want to be with me. I wish you happiness.
The most important thing in a relationship is trust
I don't want someone to stand behind me, but I want someone to be by my side. Who is not like this?
