To Youth 2: so You Are Still Here

This book made me cry several times. Although the ending of the novel is good, I wonder if there is that person I love deeply in this world. The regret of passing by is always there. Everywhere, in this world, you can lose yourself even if you are alive, let alone someone else. The male protagonist is the embodiment of idealism, and the female protagonist is a reflection of reality. What's more, it would be great if this relationship could really be like theirs. It's not that simple... The novel is really good. I have read it several times and am attracted by the author's words every time.

I'm close to fainting. Although already 28 years old. It was better to just get divorced. It was said that I would give the child 1,000 a month. I signed the contract happily. Although I didn't want to give him any advantage, there was no point in delaying it. He had never planned to give the child a penny. Without him, I still went shopping and dressed up, and later opened my own shop, earning an average of seven to eight thousand a month. Even if women don't have men, we can still live a wonderful life and be independent and self-reliant women. I just hope to go on bravely. I hope someone will give me likes. I need your support. I feel that I am doing the right thing. We women are no worse than men if we work hard. Please support me! Come on

After reading this novel for the second time, I still felt sorry for the heroine who had to face the loss of her child alone after they broke up. Although Cheng loved Su very much, Su did not necessarily do less for him. Before they broke up, Cheng never did housework. Su took care of him in every detail, and he was tired from work every day. If you can't, you have to serve him when you go home. He rarely considers Su from her perspective. He only thinks that "I love you" is enough. It's good for Su to have low self-esteem and strong self-esteem, but Cheng has never really tried to understand Su's world and life. If he did, he would understand the heroine's mood. Also, after he threw money in Shen Ju'an's face and they returned home, he raped the heroine. In my opinion, this is a great harm to girls. Nothing will make a girl more frustrated than doing this to her. Why does no one criticize the male protagonist in the comments including other comments? Why did he decide that Su didn't love him and then issued a verdict? If Su didn't love him, would he take care of him meticulously for three years and endure his temper? It wasn't him who left Su, he was the one who pushed Su away. Su originally wanted to tell him that she was pregnant, but what she heard was a breakup. In the end, when Su had an ectopic pregnancy and no more children, and even learned that he would never have children for the rest of his life, where was he? Even when they reunited later, they learned that he cried and complained that Su didn't tell him, but he didn't hear a word of apology from him. The most annoying thing was that he finally said that he didn't regret breaking up. Although it is undeniable that after separation, they have grown up and matured and can be better together. But when Cheng Zheng directly talked about breaking up, Su was left alone to face the loss of his child. Where was he when Su needed him most? Why didn't he regret it? I even saw some people say that the female protagonist can't even have children and the male protagonist actually wants him. ? ? Is this the heroine's fault? Isn't this the hero's fault? Why is it made as if the female protagonist is not worthy of the male protagonist due to her shortcomings? Cheng Zheng should feel guilty about this! Not the heroine. There is a lot to talk about, and sometimes I feel uncomfortable after reading it.

The novel begins with a sudden encounter between Yun Jin and Cheng Zheng, and then falls into deep memories. Readers who have read the original work are like old friends of the protagonist, quietly listening to the scenes of the past that have not been forgotten by the parties involved when they are grieving. High school student Su Yunjin came from a small county town to a key school in a big city. The completely unfamiliar environment, her smart and proud classmates, and her clumsy and rustic self... All of this gave birth to the fortress of cowardice, stubbornness, inferiority and sensitivity in Yunjin's heart. For such a girl, if she had to open her heart and accept Cheng Zheng, who was too bad-mouthed but good-hearted, too bad-tempered but good-looking but talented, she was destined to go through several heart-wrenching ordeals. For so many years, she had run away from him again and again, enduring as much as she could; while he had pursued her relentlessly, beating her every inch of his life. She had no intention of entering his world, but he always wanted her to be the only one in her world. The young Cheng Zheng is an activist, but his logic is a bit rebellious and stupid: I would rather be hated by her than ignored! Therefore, if you love her, you must torture her! So he laughed at her for being stupid, ridiculed her for being stupid, made fun of her name, and dumped the stinky sweat on her head. He would do all kinds of tricks just to make her life less difficult, and he would also hit her with a football to vent his anger that he thought she loved someone other than him. Behind all these hateful and lovely behaviors, there is actually the most innocent thought: it's her! Only her! On the surface, Cheng Zheng is a strong trader, but he makes mistakes along the way! Wrong! Wrong! Yun Jin, who comes from a humble background and lost her father when she was young, has good luck that other girls envy, but she stubbornly refuses to live up to her expectations and become a happy Cinderella. The self-esteem amplified by the predicament covered up the ignorant love. She didn't want the prince's pity, she just wanted to be the princess in the fisherman's heart. She longs to be loved, but it cannot be a condescending charity, but a completely reciprocal attitude. This idea in itself is normal and not wrong, but when reason rules everything, her feelings about love are filled with worldly prejudices: she can't see clearly that his love is actually very pure, she can't tell that she can't live without him, she can't imagine that it hurts more than anything else for him to let go, not counting how precious happiness those overbearing and clingy people are... All the epiphanies will come to light after they are separated: it turns out that compared to losing him, all persistence is a ridiculous mistake. There is such a person, and when he is around, you will feel that you are surrounded by countless unclear problems, but once he is gone, even your breathing and heartbeat become untidy. A person who is well fed all day long cannot be praised even by a full banquet between Manchu and Han Dynasties. A day without water and rice can still make people feel sincere gratitude. The same is true for emotional matters. If you don't break the bones, you won't know that the connected tendons will be so painful! How far is forever? Sometimes, it can be so short that it's not even visible. Fortunately, there are always people who are willing to wait where they are, just for that belief in love.

The TV series is finally here, I have been waiting for it for two years. I fell in love with this book the first time I borrowed it from the library. I borrowed it many times and read it carefully. I also watched the movie several times, but I thought the movie was too short! I like their high school stories in TV series and the parts played by Hu Xianxu and Li Landi.

Cheng Zheng is my favorite male protagonist among the hundreds of novels I have read. He is pure, clean and sunny. I have read this book five times and still treasure it.

There is never anyone to miss, all those who can leave are passers-by

I finished reading the TV series version today, and I don't remember whether Mo Yuhua is a character in the novel. When I watched Mo Yuhua in the movie version, she loved Zhou Ziyi for so many years but had no reply. Zhang Yue didn't seem to really get Shen Juan's love. Everything in the TV series version came true today. What surprised me the most was that Mo Yuhua finally came true. Although I hate Zhou Ziyi's personality, she came true, and I was super excited.

My wife and I have known each other for 12 years as high school classmates. I was a day student in the city and she was a boarding student in the county. My character is like Cheng Zheng, and hers is like Su Yunjin. We went through 80% of the storyline and finally got together. Now the baby is almost 100 days old. After reading it, I only have three words: touching, lucky, cherishing

Cheng Zheng's pride and Su Yunjin's lack of explanation caused them to miss each other. Fortunately, they finally found each other.