There Are Happy Persimmons at Home
About This Novel
On the surface, the Pan family is an educational family with three daughters who are top academics, but in fact, the family has serious problems. The eldest daughter's son, Shang Yan, is a rebellious student despite his grandparents and mother being excellent teachers. The eldest daughter, who was the breadwinner of the family due to her widowed education and poor children's grades, not only encountered a bottleneck in her career, but her marriage also came to an end. The second daughter and her husband are both university teachers, but the younger daughter has autistic tendencies and was rejected by normal kindergartens. This is unacceptable to Kochi's husband's family, and the young couple's marriage is also facing a huge test. The youngest daughter, Pan Xishi, has been separated from her parents and older sisters, who are educated youths, and have become strangers to each other since she was a child. Realizing that many of the children's feelings are similar to his own when they were young, Pan Xishi seems to understand them better than their parents.
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Official(39)Scraped 7d ago
nice. Very nice
Want to cry and angry. I know very well that these emotions are not mobilized by the author's plot, nor are they self-introduced. It comes from getting a glimpse of reality. I strongly believe that there is a Pan Xishi in reality, even a Pan Xishi who is not as good as Pan Xishi. After all, she still has some smart genes and good looks from her parents. Some Pan Xishi may not have awakened and are still internalizing themselves or trying to please others. On the other hand, seeing Pan Xishi's hard work in education and the various lawsuits in the school, I felt at a loss. I have thought about whether to be a teacher, but not only do I not have the same impure love for education as Xi Shi, I cannot be as patient and determined as Xi Shi. I am a weak person. In addition, I always see many people on the Internet saying that if you are poor, you should not have children. I've always disagreed. Because sometimes poverty has a definition, and sometimes it is a comparative word. Some people are not poor in the eyes of the general public, but in their own hearts they are so poor that they cannot stand up straight. In this book, there are few named people in big cities who can be defined as poor in the eyes of the general public, but many are not suitable for being parents. What's more, wealth is in a state of change with time and effort. Of course, after this book, I also realized that the relationship between parents has also changed. Who can say that the Pan family's parents, who just gave birth to Xishi, are not suitable to be parents? They climbed and waded in the water to find their children. But who can say that Pan's parents are suitable to be parents? As teachers, they even blame their own favoritism on happy Shi. Anyway, after reading this book, I can't put any conditions on being a parent. Some of the unfit parents here are rich, some have good character, and some are teachers. Not to mention some don't love children yet. This book is really good. After being addicted to novels, I rarely think and understand like this anymore. It is not a reflection of indoctrination, but a comparison with reality.
It was clear that Xishi was born to parents who narrowly escaped death, but even after being given away, they tried their best to find her. Such parental love is so pure. But when the child was found, he was eventually sent back to his parents' home to raise him because of your last resort. He even ended up being very dissatisfied with happy Shi when he grew up. You are very similar to your mother!
I like the title of the book. I have a persimmon at home. The name is very novel. Although I haven't read it yet, I'm looking forward to it.
I collected the book because of its title. A good title is very important. I think whether it is a new author or an old author, I support you😘
It's very realistic, it's uncomfortable to watch, but it feels like it should be like this
There are too many parents like this in the book in China, and there are not many children like the heroine. This is also the reason why children are always having accidents nowadays. Many parents often don't teach us anything, but it seems that you can't do well in school, you must like what is given to you unconditionally, and you must start a family and start a career when you are old. They love their children, but this love has a purpose. When you were young, you were asked to be obedient, learned, and sensible. It was not easy to know them all the time. When you grow up, you have to be promising, capable, decent, have a family and have children. Once the child cannot do it, it means that he is sorry for his efforts, money, and energy. It seems that if you do well it's necessary, but if you don't do well it's all your own reasons.
Ordinary yet profound
The text is not gorgeous, but the writing style is bright and the content is profound, and the story rhythm is relaxed and smooth. It is a very serious literary work, not an ordinary Internet article.
Pan Xishi is a copy and paste of me, except that I am the second among three daughters. Forever ignored.
It will always be a dispensable presence in the family.
I read it all afternoon and couldn't help but write a review
This is a short story about "ordinary people". It completely depicts the sad little things of an ordinary family. It seems that a glamorous and enviable family of highly educated talents also has countless troubles and sorrows. The Pan family cannot be described as fragmented, but each family has its own troubles. Everyone in the three families has a hard time. It can only be said that through the resonance of joy and children, parents can deeply understand their own shortcomings and care more about their children to achieve the healing of each family.
What a suffocating family. It is difficult for an upright official to stop household chores, so maybe this is the best thing
renew
The author should update it soon. I can't wait any longer.
Damn, it's time for you to update. It's been too long since you've updated.
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Official(39)Scraped 7d ago
nice. Very nice
Want to cry and angry. I know very well that these emotions are not mobilized by the author's plot, nor are they self-introduced. It comes from getting a glimpse of reality. I strongly believe that there is a Pan Xishi in reality, even a Pan Xishi who is not as good as Pan Xishi. After all, she still has some smart genes and good looks from her parents. Some Pan Xishi may not have awakened and are still internalizing themselves or trying to please others. On the other hand, seeing Pan Xishi's hard work in education and the various lawsuits in the school, I felt at a loss. I have thought about whether to be a teacher, but not only do I not have the same impure love for education as Xi Shi, I cannot be as patient and determined as Xi Shi. I am a weak person. In addition, I always see many people on the Internet saying that if you are poor, you should not have children. I've always disagreed. Because sometimes poverty has a definition, and sometimes it is a comparative word. Some people are not poor in the eyes of the general public, but in their own hearts they are so poor that they cannot stand up straight. In this book, there are few named people in big cities who can be defined as poor in the eyes of the general public, but many are not suitable for being parents. What's more, wealth is in a state of change with time and effort. Of course, after this book, I also realized that the relationship between parents has also changed. Who can say that the Pan family's parents, who just gave birth to Xishi, are not suitable to be parents? They climbed and waded in the water to find their children. But who can say that Pan's parents are suitable to be parents? As teachers, they even blame their own favoritism on happy Shi. Anyway, after reading this book, I can't put any conditions on being a parent. Some of the unfit parents here are rich, some have good character, and some are teachers. Not to mention some don't love children yet. This book is really good. After being addicted to novels, I rarely think and understand like this anymore. It is not a reflection of indoctrination, but a comparison with reality.
It was clear that Xishi was born to parents who narrowly escaped death, but even after being given away, they tried their best to find her. Such parental love is so pure. But when the child was found, he was eventually sent back to his parents' home to raise him because of your last resort. He even ended up being very dissatisfied with happy Shi when he grew up. You are very similar to your mother!
I like the title of the book. I have a persimmon at home. The name is very novel. Although I haven't read it yet, I'm looking forward to it.
I collected the book because of its title. A good title is very important. I think whether it is a new author or an old author, I support you😘
It's very realistic, it's uncomfortable to watch, but it feels like it should be like this
There are too many parents like this in the book in China, and there are not many children like the heroine. This is also the reason why children are always having accidents nowadays. Many parents often don't teach us anything, but it seems that you can't do well in school, you must like what is given to you unconditionally, and you must start a family and start a career when you are old. They love their children, but this love has a purpose. When you were young, you were asked to be obedient, learned, and sensible. It was not easy to know them all the time. When you grow up, you have to be promising, capable, decent, have a family and have children. Once the child cannot do it, it means that he is sorry for his efforts, money, and energy. It seems that if you do well it's necessary, but if you don't do well it's all your own reasons.
Ordinary yet profound
The text is not gorgeous, but the writing style is bright and the content is profound, and the story rhythm is relaxed and smooth. It is a very serious literary work, not an ordinary Internet article.
Pan Xishi is a copy and paste of me, except that I am the second among three daughters. Forever ignored.
It will always be a dispensable presence in the family.
I read it all afternoon and couldn't help but write a review
This is a short story about "ordinary people". It completely depicts the sad little things of an ordinary family. It seems that a glamorous and enviable family of highly educated talents also has countless troubles and sorrows. The Pan family cannot be described as fragmented, but each family has its own troubles. Everyone in the three families has a hard time. It can only be said that through the resonance of joy and children, parents can deeply understand their own shortcomings and care more about their children to achieve the healing of each family.
What a suffocating family. It is difficult for an upright official to stop household chores, so maybe this is the best thing
renew
The author should update it soon. I can't wait any longer.
Damn, it's time for you to update. It's been too long since you've updated.
