Those Youthful Days That Can Never Be Returned (set of 2 Volumes)

Those Youthful Days That Can Never Be Returned (set of 2 Volumes)

by Tonghua

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Ch. 21番外之两个人:未来得及看清的你,未来得及说再见的我
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Tonghua's classic youth nostalgia novel, fully revised; two volumes in total, perfectly collected. There are always times that only after it has passed will you find that it has been deeply engraved in your memory. In the last ten years of the 20th century, the most unique memories of a generation's growth, Little Tigers, Shanghai Beach, and the Four Heavenly Kings, we are filled with emotion every time we mention these, as well as the faces and thoughts sealed in diaries... It is precisely because of its short duration that the end of youth is so precious. What is important is that we once had that painful and happy youth. When I picked up this book, those memories of my youth came to my face instantly. The boy at that time had grown up, and the flying and wantonness of youth had gradually left us. There was a mottled heart in my chest. In my heart, there is a warmth that spans time and never fades away.

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Clear Words of Wisdom87mo ago

After reading it every night, I tossed and turned, had trouble falling asleep, and finally fell asleep. After waking up in the middle of the night, I couldn't fall asleep again. My mind was full of Qiqi, Zhang Jun, Xiaobo... It was as if Qiqi was dreaming! The author's writing style is so delicate, and the scenes he describes seem to be right in front of me. It reminded me of my student days and my youth without knowing it! Although it is not as exciting as the protagonist, nor does it have the protagonist's academic gene, nor the living people in his writings (maybe I just didn't discover it), but it still reminds me of a lot of things. Now I feel that I was really boring at that time. To say that I was a good student in the eyes of the teacher, but in the eyes of my parents. The good boy in the movie is actually just dull and inexperienced. Now I suddenly hate myself at that time, instead of like Qiqi said in the letter to Guan He later, "We are not angels, and we are not perfect, but we still have to love and cherish this self with many shortcomings"... No one can live like Luo Qiqi, but there are you and me in her experience... She has been depressed since she was a child, but she has books as companions. Later she meets her noble people, Chen Jin, Teacher Gao, Teacher Zeng... And also meets people she hates very much... And meets the person she has loved for many years and who has loved her for many years... She recalls those times so clearly and reluctantly... She was youthful, uninhibited, rebellious, free and easy and sincere in her hard work. Even if she was in the game hall, In the karaoke hall and dance hall, I met Xiaobo, Squid, Brother Li... These gangsters can be very lucky to "retreat and be alone", but there are few people who are as lucky as her, such as Xiaofei, such a bright and sunny girl with a bright future was ruined. As for what happened to her later, we don't know, but it is no longer what she imagined... I think Qiqi's luckiest thing is that the person she has liked for many years also loves her deeply, but she is also a bit unlucky, because Because of their impulsiveness and pride when they were young, their sincere and beautiful relationship did not have a good result. It was so sad and such a pity... When they met again after ten years of going around in circles, Zhang Jun hid. He was ecstatic after looking at the lucky star, which showed that his feelings at that time were not in vain. He also received a response and got a more sincere relationship. But after the ecstasy, he was at a loss. They were not the same people back then. He didn't know that he missed that relationship. I still miss the person I was then... How I hope they can meet again and love again bravely, because 19-year-old Zhang Jun can cry for you Qiqi, and 29-year-old Zhang Jun can still shed tears for her. 17-Year-old Qiqi likes to accept the stones picked up by Zhang Jun and picks up stones with him. 27-Year-old Qiqi will go to the river to wash the stones Zhang Jun gave her... This shows that there is still love in their hearts... I hope they can spend tomorrow happily together! And Xiaobo, he used to protect Qiqi so carefully, but he clearly understood that they were not the same person, so he let Qiqi fly to achieve a better self... I hope they can still be friends even if they can't become lovers! I admire Luo Qiqi not only for her intelligence but also for her sincerity. Although she may seem cold at ordinary times, her generosity can be seen when she helps Shen Yuanzhe. She really helps others completely and does not hold back. This should be the pattern! Time is such a good thing, it can cover up many things, heal wounds, and make everything a thing of the past... Different people remember the same event at the same time differently. When years pass, everything from that year is no longer a secret and can be told as a story, but what's the point! If you have anything to say, say it quickly!

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Zhian87mo ago

A passer-by in the confused period of youth

After reading this novel, I felt deeply. The final ending is not clear. The author is really cunning and leaves us countless imaginations. Some people expect it to be Xiao Bo, and some hope it is Zhang Jun. But no matter what the ending is, it taught me a lot. Youth is both bitter and sweet. We have done the most correct things in our youth, and at the same time, we have also done things that make us regret our lives. When we were young, we were too sensitive, too afraid of getting hurt, full of hope for the future but afraid to move forward. I really like what Chen Jin said, never give up. Once you give up, you will get used to retreating when faced with difficulties. But if you face difficulties head-on, you will eventually be able to overcome them. It seems that in a matter of seconds, your future life trajectory will be completely different.

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Non-emirate83mo ago

520 Confession to Tonghua

I have read a lot of books, and Tong Hua's books are the most passionate and sincere. Love lasts forever The hard work is nothing, and the long wait is nothing. As long as the storm settles down, everything can come as expected. After reading Tong Hua's book, I can really understand a lot of life philosophies in it, and there are so many famous quotes that my little label is full! I can't say that I have read all the books published by DaDa, but I think eight out of ten of them have been! I want to cry every time I read this book! Love it! Once youth is gone, it will never come back! It's really like this, enjoy what you have now! Is the most important Thank you for helping me understand a lot of life philosophy! Happy 520! I particularly like this sentence: Please believe that the time that sneaks away makes us look older, but it enriches our lives.

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.86mo ago

I have read this book four times and never tire of it, but I hope Luo Qiqi and Xiaobo are together.

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书友202103011041016349073mo ago

Those youthful days that I can't go back to

This is my first time writing a book review When I saw the title of this book, my heart skipped a beat. Perhaps the youthful days we can never get back are what we miss the most. I am also young now, and I have too much confusion about my future. I am very similar to the heroine in the book, but the difference is that I dragged my first love in elementary school to junior high school. When I was in the first grade of junior high school, I watched him joke unscrupulously with his classmates. I looked at the smile on his face from three rows away. The feeling was very subtle, and there was an indescribable jealousy towards that girl. In the first monthly exam, I scored 49.5 Out of 50 in Biology. No one around me scored higher than me. I was very happy at the time. I should be worthy of him, right? However, the next second, everyone turned their attention to the girl. She also scored 49.5, Tied for first place with me. Thinking about it now, I may not remember the scene clearly, but I remember that after I found out about it, I looked at the girl from two rows away, feeling jealous in my heart. I saw the girl blushing in embarrassment, as if I was a joke... Three years later, I still follow in his footsteps, and I can see him at a glance among the crowd...

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小柳影你快粗来y🐰74mo ago

You didn't mean to draw the wind, but you just caused the torrent by being aloof and arrogant.

I like Tonghua's novels. That kind of green, pure and beautiful feelings are all captured in the pen. The story itself contains very real phenomena. The throbbing of young people's hearts in their youth is always difficult to be buried by the heavy academic work. The protagonist of the story, Qiqi, lacked the love of her parents since she was a child. The death of her grandfather, the only one who truly gave her warmth, wiped out the last trace of tenderness left for her in the world. The rare friendship with Xiaofei has been full of twists and turns. The joy of a sudden glimpse when we first met, the pain of Nanke Yimeng when we parted, and the unexpected joy when we reunited, only to be replaced by a long sigh when we woke up from the dream. For her, her elementary school days were like an endless black abyss. At this time, a ray of moonlight slanted into her heart, causing ripples in the girl's still-watering heart. That person was Zhang Jun. He was kind to her and said he would protect her, which gradually opened her heart. That strange feeling flooded into Qiqi's world. And she is just an ugly duckling after all. She is perhaps the best epitome of ordinary girls in today's society. Because I am not good enough, I am cautious and eager to be loved, but I don't know how to conquer love. For Zhang Jun, the appearance of Guan He was like the arrival of the perfect goddess in his dream, which made him confused. He couldn't wait to confess to the goddess, but he was politely rejected because the other party's euphemism and tact were on display, and he was as sweet and painful as if his throat was clogged. For Qiqi, it is the beginning of a seven-year competition, which is the source of endless inferiority and motivation for her. When Qiqi did not study and devoted herself to random thoughts, she was very painful, because the pain could not bring about any essential changes for her, but she was increasingly surrounded by darkness. But after she tasted the improvement in her academic performance and made people look at her differently, she took this as an opportunity to work hard and excel, at least to surpass her enemies in studies and win love. Later, the boy who didn't take her seriously at first was gradually impressed by her capable character of going her own way and fell in love. The most dramatic thing is that Qiqi thought that her unrequited love would be fruitless, so she deliberately avoided his eyes and used her disguised disgust for Zhang Jun to create a protective color for herself. So he thinks she doesn't love him enough. Because I am not confident and afraid of being hurt, I dare not love. This is the most regrettable point in the whole book. They obviously love each other so much, but they don't have two connected hearts to pry into each other's emotions. First love is always so imperfect and always so unforgettable because it teaches us to grow. Many years later, when Qiqi becomes a mature woman, looking back on this time of first love, she may be filled with emotion and smile with tears in her eyes.

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Ling Tian Mu Shui71mo ago

Watched 606 minutes! I read it in three parts. I first saw the place where the book was charged. After I saved enough book coupons, I saw the place in the middle where the heroine graduated from junior high school. Then I read it again. I cried passionately when I saw the words Qiqi wrote in the lucky star for Zhang Jun. As a result, I didn't write a few more words and quickly stopped crying. The author clearly wrote a novel, but it was so much like an autobiography that I felt the same way. Because I accidentally knew the open ending, I felt sad inside. I won't say much about the misfortune of fate (almost everyone in the novel has a bumpy fate), nor much about the heroine's path to learning (you can only worship, not copy). Let's talk about the heroine's emotional destiny. I was completely inclined to Xu Xiaobo at the beginning, because I didn't know the ending at the time, and Xiaobo is the male protagonist. It made me look forward to them being together. With such a hope, they must be together! ! It's a pity that the two of them have more of a family relationship! But it was him who the heroine was waiting for when the results of the college entrance examination were released. In the years to come, when she sang karaoke and thought about being caught off guard by helping him turn over his gloves, it was because of him that she shed tears. And when she came back ten years later, it was him who had to wait until we met again... But because Xu Xiaobo lost the opportunity to take the college entrance examination, the two of them could only go further and further away in the secular world. It was indeed a great test to be together (because it felt like it was the author's experience, not a novel, so the considerations were more realistic). As for the heroine and Zhang Jun, who were in love at the beginning but had many misunderstandings, because I later knew the ending and the author's clear guidance in each chapter, I felt very pessimistic, sad, and sad while watching it. Although the heroine wanted Zhang Jun to love her all the time, what she later regretted was not that they were not together, but that she did not love him enough because of her various circumstances. There were so many misunderstandings between them that I thought it was God's will not to let them be together. Then let's say goodbye! I once read a novel, and I was devastated that the two people in the novel did not end up together. After reading it a few years later, I felt that neither of them loved each other enough, or that the love of people in that era seems a bit perverted or distorted today, so I threw the book away, which made me suffer for the two of them for so long (because the book was also very autobiographical). So just follow God's will. Things like deep love and shallow love have never happened. Even if we are not together, and even if we never meet such a person again, it is not a big deal, because life is only a few decades, and it is over quickly. The heroine has been away for ten years (leaving for such a long time reminds me of a novel), and neither Xiaobo nor Zhang Jun can live without the heroine. Or if you meet someone, try to fight for it again and try to be together for a while. It's a pity that there are two male protagonists, how do you choose the female protagonist? ! I'm very confused... I've seen too many joys and sorrows, and I want them to miss each other more than to see each other. But the author still wants them to meet. The author is very ill-intentioned... The author is older than me. I read it very late. The earliest one I read was the one that was first adapted into a TV series, then the fairy tale, then the science fiction novel, and then this one. The ending is quite disappointing. In addition, I want to let my daughter read this novel in the future. I hope it will help her as she grows up, learn about self-love and love for others, and try to take as few detours as possible (although detours are inevitable for growth). Of course, I also hope that she will have a mother who does not neglect her duties.

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Miraitowany50mo ago

The past cannot be remonstrated - Comment on "those youthful days that cannot be returned"

Tongda has adhered to her usual style, no longer making people heartbroken and bursting into tears. But it really makes people unable to let it go for a long time. A touch of sadness spreads like a vine and penetrates into our cells little by little. Let us follow Luo Qiqi into her childhood and grow up with her. Leng Buding can still see familiar scenes and familiar conversations, just like a time machine, slowly opening the curtain on our vague and youthful childhood. Luo Qiqi's childhood was very ordinary, ordinary, but extraordinary. She was a bad student and a good student. She had a "cornucopia" of extreme hatred, and there was also Zeng Hong, whom she liked to call herself a stupid pig. There is a vague secret love, and there is also an imaginary enemy who I hate you to death today, but can hold hands affectionately tomorrow. I have a close friend who shares the same goals, and I also have a bunch of buddies who share the same goals. If it was because of her unknown character that she was repeatedly publicly humiliated by the "Cornucopia", I would rather believe that she was called aloof from the world and independent. But unfortunately, she did not know that she was so noble at the time, and she was also ashamed of being made to stand for fear of being seen by her crush and her imaginary enemy. Maybe it's the reason why everything must be reversed. The more times she is forced to stand, she will stand with peace of mind, and will smile and think about the people visiting her in the audience: thank you for visiting, take care of the environment, and please do not climb up to take pictures. Until one day when Cornucopia was completely defeated by her shamelessness, which was even more crooked than the city wall, and she adopted a laissez-faire attitude, she still felt that she was not quite used to it. While becoming a top performer, my heart becomes tough and sensitive at the same time. Not without pain, but I have learned how to disguise myself to protect myself. At the same time, she was also lucky. She met Zeng Hong, who took an unusual path. The female teacher who smoked and ignored other teachers and forced a poor student to give a speech brought many new challenges to Luo Qiqi's study career. She taught her how to face her own failures and how to face the timidity in her heart. Taught her how to look at things around her calmly and calmly. Time and time again, she saw the boy she had a crush on changing his girlfriend in front of her, from sadness, forbearance, and confusion at the beginning to smiles, blessings, and letting go. Therefore, nothing is impossible in this world. She can become a true friend with her imaginary enemy Guan He, break out of the gang of four who once gave her a "collective sense of honor", and beat up a bunch of gossiping women for her best friend Xiaofei. Especially when one of them is the current girlfriend of her crush on her boyfriend, she finds that she who originally thought she was wronged is actually so happy. Xiaofei's father beat her mother all the time, and she faced a violent family; Guan He's father died early, and Guan He had to rely on someone else to please her stepfather and brothers and sisters; Xiaobo's father died early, and his mother was mentally ill. , The economy has been in straits; although Lin Lan has both parents, she has to face her mother's embarrassing marriage change and bear the gossip for her mother; Chen Songqing studied so hard, but because of his poor family, he had to shoulder the burden of the family early. I once thought that each of them was happier than me, and their smiles were all brighter than mine. But never think that they are stronger than me, strong and smiling. Xiaobo's path was his own choice. He could not get out of his own psychological shadow, but he did sink soberly. Squid was imprisoned, and he also closed the door to his heart. The tattoo of the broken-winged flying dragon was a symbol of his official farewell to his youth. It's futile to try to keep them together, it's not friendship that's broken, but youth. Freud, the master psychologist, believed that all a person's behavior is affected by childhood, and all cause and effect can be traced back to the very beginning of life. Luo Qiqi's childhood was sealed on the day the results were released. Those classmates who once grew up together, laughed and were sad together are now far apart. It is thanks to them that those joys and pains made Luo Qiqi continue to grow and transform. Everything is just for one day, when we meet again, when you smile and ask me, how are you? I will tell you very brightly, I am fine!

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Wild in the Cool Weather82mo ago

I think of my junior high school life, my junior high school classmates, my junior high school teachers, the difficulty, fulfillment, beauty, and hard work of junior high school. I answered the chemistry teacher's questions while sleeping in class. I went to the teacher after memorizing ancient Chinese smoothly. I rode my bicycle to school quickly in the morning and gave my classmates homework to help me. I followed the teacher in English class and blurted out the grammar. But I didn't know how to use it. I never memorized all the knowledge points that the politics teacher asked me to memorize. I naturally remembered them after doing too much. After the second grade of junior high school, I didn't feel tired from the high-intensity physical training. When we graduated, we bought our own medicine balls. The class teacher said that we could take our own away or leave them for the next class. I kept mine and didn't tell the teacher. It seemed that it could prove that I had been here. I remember one time the head teacher said that your math score was 130 this time. I said that I had already guessed it, but the teacher thought that I was proud of this score. There was nothing to be happy about. I was just happy that the score was the same as I estimated. No matter how I played, my score would always hover around 15-20 (I can't remember exactly, but it was in the 10s anyway). Those days were tiring but very happy, really happy.

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Little Beast_eb69mo ago

This is my first time to write a book review. I read this book when I was in my third year of high school. After reading it, I became so enthusiastic that I learned from Luo Qiqi and was inspired to take the Tsinghua University entrance examination (although I fell far short in the end, haha)! Maybe it's because the descriptions are so meticulous, I can always bring them into the situation, or maybe it's the same ignorant throbbing of youth, which is always unforgettable. Now that I'm a sophomore, I often look back at this book and think about my high school crush. I always blush and smile at the corner of my mouth. He was very good and we were classmates. I loved going to school at that time because I could see him when I went to school. I always thought, how could I be so lucky to be with such a wonderful person? I have a classmate who is a good-looking boy. He studies well and has a humorous personality. He is always liked by girls. Girls always talk about him. I will have an inexplicable sense of superiority in my heart at that time. Haha, what are you talking about? That is also my deskmate. We always fight and study in the evening. We don't communicate and we all work on our homework. But this feeling is very beautiful. Sometimes I am as sad as Luo Qiqi. He has many girls chasing him. , I also worried about other girls, so I felt awkward and stopped talking to him. This period of time may vary, but it happens often. In fact, sometimes I wonder if he likes me too, otherwise why would he be so nice to me, always teasing me with jokes, but in the end I found that I am narcissistic and think too much. Seeing this, if people ask me why I don't confess, I can only say that I have the same mentality as Luo Qiqi, and I don't have the courage. I had low self-esteem. I really couldn't stand being like Sister Lin every day, and my mood fluctuated with him. Maybe it was my senior year in high school, so I moved to the front of the podium to do it. After that, I didn't know what was wrong with me, and I refused to talk to him, but I always paid attention to his every move. Even during the graduation dinner, I deliberately avoided it and only said one or two polite words. On the way home, I was thinking that this might be the last time I see him! My heart will be very painful and boring! This is the throbbing of youth. I actually hate my inferiority complex and cowardice, but I don't have the courage to overcome it. I am not as outstanding as Luo Qiqi. I am just the most ordinary and ordinary student. In fact, the inferiority complex in our bones can never be overcome. All we can do is to become better ourselves and hide our inferiority complex in the corner.

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