Dear You
About This Novel
Best-selling author Ding Dingzhang's new blockbuster work in 2020. A representative writer of modern urban and female themes, from the best-selling book "The World Has Nothing to Do with You" to the hotly discussed "Send a Hundred Girls Home" to the movie "Dear Happy New Year", Ding Dingzhang can always find and use his unique perspective to show us the growth of ordinary girls around us who do not accept their fate in this cruel era, and are free and easy. The new book continues his consistent theme, but the writing style is different from any previous works. The book contains frequent quotes that reflect people's hearts, all derived from Ding Dingzhang's sharp observations and thoughts on the emotions and living conditions of urban women. More than ten years of life experience as a North drifter, keen insight and strong ability to empathize, give Ding Dingzhang's works a depth of thought. Some truths sting our hearts, whip our nerves violently, and make us cry, but gain long-lost sobriety. Tell women's stories simply and sincerely, without deliberately sensationalizing, magnifying pain, or hiding happiness. Girls in contemporary society, what are they thinking? Take off the disguise, what do they really look like? What misunderstandings do the outside world have about them? What are their fears and loves? What made them what they are now? The stories in the book are not pretentious chicken soup for the soul, nor superficial and exaggerated, but restore the real life itself. The difficulties you have experienced personally will eventually give you the answer. Loss pains us, injury scares us, and uncertainty makes us anxious. As long as you live, you will have troubles and confusions about "loving and being loved". The path of life turns out to be that even if I am afraid, I still challenge, even if I give in, I still try to win, and finally understand, oh, this is me who perseveres. All the stories in this book are based on real interview records, telling the subtle thoughts of 18 strange girls. Each "she" is not a specific person. They are just a mirror in which we see ourselves. Some of them have been hurt by the harshness of their original families, some have low self-esteem and are too sensitive to love, and some of them are like seabirds who never stop pursuing their dreams. The stories aren't entirely bright, but that doesn't stop them from existing. Thank you to them for telling me their private longing, pain, torture, heartbreak, love, joy, and so many complex emotions to a stranger like me. The story will hurt and may bring you to tears. I tell you the truth because I feel sorry for you and I am afraid that you will be hurt. The novel is over, but life goes on. Maybe the ending in your story could be different. And that's exactly what telling is about.
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Official(5)Scraped 11d ago
Loss pains us, injury scares us, and uncertainty makes us anxious. As long as you live, you will have troubles and confusions about "loving and being loved". The path of life turns out to be that even if I am afraid, I still challenge, even if I give in, I still try to win. Finally, I understand that this is me who perseveres.
We continue to grow in joy and tears, and we gain happiness between love and non-love. Happiness is very simple, that is, the person you love is by your side. We may not have a grand wedding or a love that moves the world, but we are also very happy, and that happiness comes from you, my dear.
This is how loneliness is formed in big cities. Each party feels that the other person's time is full, but they themselves have nothing. Like an overstuffed refrigerator. In fact, many of the items in it have expired. I just forgot to clean it up. The feeling of loneliness is eliminated in the busyness and forgetfulness. But there are always one or two moments in people's lives when they open the refrigerator.
I only read the first sentence of each chapter
I didn't read the content in detail, I skipped through it🌝🌝😝🤗🍉😭👉🤭(◇)
human world
The love stories of more than a dozen women are not just love stories. The descriptions are gentle and meticulous, leaving a lasting impression on the lips and teeth.
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Official(5)Scraped 11d ago
Loss pains us, injury scares us, and uncertainty makes us anxious. As long as you live, you will have troubles and confusions about "loving and being loved". The path of life turns out to be that even if I am afraid, I still challenge, even if I give in, I still try to win. Finally, I understand that this is me who perseveres.
We continue to grow in joy and tears, and we gain happiness between love and non-love. Happiness is very simple, that is, the person you love is by your side. We may not have a grand wedding or a love that moves the world, but we are also very happy, and that happiness comes from you, my dear.
This is how loneliness is formed in big cities. Each party feels that the other person's time is full, but they themselves have nothing. Like an overstuffed refrigerator. In fact, many of the items in it have expired. I just forgot to clean it up. The feeling of loneliness is eliminated in the busyness and forgetfulness. But there are always one or two moments in people's lives when they open the refrigerator.
I only read the first sentence of each chapter
I didn't read the content in detail, I skipped through it🌝🌝😝🤗🍉😭👉🤭(◇)
human world
The love stories of more than a dozen women are not just love stories. The descriptions are gentle and meticulous, leaving a lasting impression on the lips and teeth.
