My Battle with Marriage (starring Feng Shaofeng and Cai Wenjing in the Film and Television Series of the Same Name)
by Ji Liushang
About This Novel
Marriage values of modern independent women: live clearly and think clearly; constantly change and reinvent yourself. Ning Yue's husband Hu Cheng cheated on her when she was pregnant. Ning Yue decided to divorce, but found that she had no foundation for establishing herself! If she gets divorced, she may not even have the basic ability to make a living, let alone custody of her children! Ning Yue has a calm mind. Although she is depressed and suffering from postpartum depression, she still works hard to stabilize herself. How should she, who is in a disadvantaged situation, step out of the family and into society?
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Official(70)Scraped 22d ago
If possible, I don't want to get married. There are a lot of troubles after marriage. Live a life that turns love into family affection, romance into ordinaryness, and sweetness into warmth. Life has completely changed. It is better to rely on yourself than relying on others. (I'm not saying that this is the case, at least most men are a bit chauvinistic. This is just my personal opinion, most of the people I see are a bit chauvinistic)
Is this real married life? It really makes me feel suffocated and makes me afraid of my future married life! If it were really possible to predict the unfortunate life after marriage, I believe many people would choose to live alone. Unfortunately, none of us have the ability to predict it. What really scares people is that they are unhappy after getting married and end up getting divorced. At this time, they think about how much better it would be if they were alone, and how wonderful it would be if they could do it all over again. Unfortunately this is not possible. So do you want to get married? What should you do if you are not happy after getting married?
So wonderful!
This is the most thrilling novel I have ever read about the battle to defend marriage and children. The battle is fierce! It made my stomach clench into a ball. The author's writing is fluent, and he sharpens his sword to the scumbag. It's so enjoyable! Worth a look Worth a look!
Staying contented with the distance
The true story may be exaggerated, but it achieves the desired effect. Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families or even generations. Sometimes, many people don't know what marriage is, but they are pushed by various reasons to live their lives in confusion. Stupid people have stupid blessings. People who are in pain are always smart. Hu Cheng's character and values are inherently twisted. That is because he grew up in a twisted family environment, which planted the seeds of the tragedy of his marriage. The failure of their marriage may be more due to their family environment. Marriage is the tomb of love. What I want to tell us is actually: love is temporary, but marriage is lifelong. Marriage is the sublimation or condensation of love. This process of sublimation or condensation cannot be seen, but some people have succeeded. Do you still remember that the beautiful ice flowers sublimated and turned into water vapor, and the water vapor condensed into beautiful ice flowers? We can't forget that life is not only about the present, but also about poetry and the distance just because we encounter the unacceptable and dirty side of life! There are also many successful examples of marriage. So far, I still yearn for the love and marriage of Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu. Yang Jiang is known as the most virtuous wife and the most talented woman. There must be a side of her that is unknown to everyone.
It is very realistic, but it is also very depressing after watching it, and you will lose your illusions about marriage. In fact, for the heroine, she should have gotten rid of such a scumbag long ago. It is not a good choice to put your whole life on your children.
This kind of marriage is terrible! In this book, the status of women, especially housewives, is evident. So no matter what, women should have their own careers, financial resources, and be self-reliant! Society and law should and must recognize the value of housewives' labor and provide guarantees! I feel so sad after reading this!
I only watched it once and had a little insight Art comes from life but is higher than life. Such things may happen in the real world, but it is often much more complicated than novels. It involves more than money and children. How many people like the hero's mother have to endure it for a lifetime? Countless. Fortunately, the heroine has someone to help him and someone to care about him. The real world is complex yet simple. Finding your partner is nothing more than making yourself no longer lonely, and the price of not being lonely is the unhappiness of ordinary couples. Sometimes I also wonder, won't couples get tired of each other after such a long life? The heroine said it many times in the novel, she is used to it. And when I got used to typing on the keyboard, the next thing that appeared was just fine. That's fine. I can only sigh often because I have no choice but to do so. Finally, I hope everyone has a good marriage, a happy life, and a healthy body. We all need to be as brave and resourceful as the heroine when things happen. No logic please, just think about it, don't mind
very nice
The heroine is a lawyer. If something like this happens to ordinary people, how can they defend themselves if they don't know anything? ? No wonder there are so many mothers who suffer from depression and jump off buildings with their children. I really don't understand why there are such selfish people like Hu Cheng in the world and they can be so successful in their careers. There are so many women rushing to like a person who is so scumbag that he can't be a scumbag. This is a novel where scumbag men get their comeuppance. In real life, such people live very well.
Where did you come from without a woman? Your mother walked away from hell just to give birth to you. Not to mention that she had to give birth to you when she was pregnant. Why did she push a young girl or woman to the edge of the abyss just because you, a little fleshy ball, could not grow up safely? Why!
very good. Thanks
A woman is so forbearing that she can't move forward. This woman fully demonstrates the title of mother, a great mother, and she is strong as a mother. This book taught me that no matter what problems I encounter in life, don't give up and think about solving them. Thanks
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Official(70)Scraped 22d ago
If possible, I don't want to get married. There are a lot of troubles after marriage. Live a life that turns love into family affection, romance into ordinaryness, and sweetness into warmth. Life has completely changed. It is better to rely on yourself than relying on others. (I'm not saying that this is the case, at least most men are a bit chauvinistic. This is just my personal opinion, most of the people I see are a bit chauvinistic)
Is this real married life? It really makes me feel suffocated and makes me afraid of my future married life! If it were really possible to predict the unfortunate life after marriage, I believe many people would choose to live alone. Unfortunately, none of us have the ability to predict it. What really scares people is that they are unhappy after getting married and end up getting divorced. At this time, they think about how much better it would be if they were alone, and how wonderful it would be if they could do it all over again. Unfortunately this is not possible. So do you want to get married? What should you do if you are not happy after getting married?
So wonderful!
This is the most thrilling novel I have ever read about the battle to defend marriage and children. The battle is fierce! It made my stomach clench into a ball. The author's writing is fluent, and he sharpens his sword to the scumbag. It's so enjoyable! Worth a look Worth a look!
Staying contented with the distance
The true story may be exaggerated, but it achieves the desired effect. Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families or even generations. Sometimes, many people don't know what marriage is, but they are pushed by various reasons to live their lives in confusion. Stupid people have stupid blessings. People who are in pain are always smart. Hu Cheng's character and values are inherently twisted. That is because he grew up in a twisted family environment, which planted the seeds of the tragedy of his marriage. The failure of their marriage may be more due to their family environment. Marriage is the tomb of love. What I want to tell us is actually: love is temporary, but marriage is lifelong. Marriage is the sublimation or condensation of love. This process of sublimation or condensation cannot be seen, but some people have succeeded. Do you still remember that the beautiful ice flowers sublimated and turned into water vapor, and the water vapor condensed into beautiful ice flowers? We can't forget that life is not only about the present, but also about poetry and the distance just because we encounter the unacceptable and dirty side of life! There are also many successful examples of marriage. So far, I still yearn for the love and marriage of Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu. Yang Jiang is known as the most virtuous wife and the most talented woman. There must be a side of her that is unknown to everyone.
It is very realistic, but it is also very depressing after watching it, and you will lose your illusions about marriage. In fact, for the heroine, she should have gotten rid of such a scumbag long ago. It is not a good choice to put your whole life on your children.
This kind of marriage is terrible! In this book, the status of women, especially housewives, is evident. So no matter what, women should have their own careers, financial resources, and be self-reliant! Society and law should and must recognize the value of housewives' labor and provide guarantees! I feel so sad after reading this!
I only watched it once and had a little insight Art comes from life but is higher than life. Such things may happen in the real world, but it is often much more complicated than novels. It involves more than money and children. How many people like the hero's mother have to endure it for a lifetime? Countless. Fortunately, the heroine has someone to help him and someone to care about him. The real world is complex yet simple. Finding your partner is nothing more than making yourself no longer lonely, and the price of not being lonely is the unhappiness of ordinary couples. Sometimes I also wonder, won't couples get tired of each other after such a long life? The heroine said it many times in the novel, she is used to it. And when I got used to typing on the keyboard, the next thing that appeared was just fine. That's fine. I can only sigh often because I have no choice but to do so. Finally, I hope everyone has a good marriage, a happy life, and a healthy body. We all need to be as brave and resourceful as the heroine when things happen. No logic please, just think about it, don't mind
very nice
The heroine is a lawyer. If something like this happens to ordinary people, how can they defend themselves if they don't know anything? ? No wonder there are so many mothers who suffer from depression and jump off buildings with their children. I really don't understand why there are such selfish people like Hu Cheng in the world and they can be so successful in their careers. There are so many women rushing to like a person who is so scumbag that he can't be a scumbag. This is a novel where scumbag men get their comeuppance. In real life, such people live very well.
Where did you come from without a woman? Your mother walked away from hell just to give birth to you. Not to mention that she had to give birth to you when she was pregnant. Why did she push a young girl or woman to the edge of the abyss just because you, a little fleshy ball, could not grow up safely? Why!
very good. Thanks
A woman is so forbearing that she can't move forward. This woman fully demonstrates the title of mother, a great mother, and she is strong as a mother. This book taught me that no matter what problems I encounter in life, don't give up and think about solving them. Thanks
