I'm Waiting for You in Memories

Reading it in one breath felt like I was struggling with the pain in it. The sad and unsatisfactory ending is more realistic. The male protagonist's distrust caused him to miss his whole life. I don't sympathize with the distrust caused by the inferiority complex in the bones and the inability to forget after the loss. Like the heroine, I will leave and force myself to forget, even if it is dripping with blood. Among them, the performance of parents is too biased. Most parents in the world will not be like this, which is disappointing.

One of my favorite books, needless to say, I have read it countless times

Yao Qiyun and Chen Xiao don't have enough courage in love. Maybe they are afraid of losing or taking the wrong step? And they all met brave girls like Situ and Zheng Wei. In reality, we love ourselves more than love.

You know, at first I thought the ending of this book would be like those endings in the book world, with the male protagonist and the female protagonist getting together, and I was even ready to write a review with the word "inappropriate detail" after reading this book. After reading it, I felt that it was a good thing that Ah Jue was not with Yao Qiyun. Parents should be tolerant and understanding of their children, but in my opinion, Ah Jue's parents didn't believe her and chose to believe an outsider. There is no family affection at all. When I saw Wu Jiang saying, "Situ, if people must get married, let's get married." I really hope that they will get married in the end. Destiny. From this point of view, Ah Jue was right to leave back then, and it was also right not to be with Yao Qiyun after he came back. Even though Yao Qiyun missed her so much and even pretended to live like that, he never wavered in his determination and left anyway. Just like the first chapter, if time could be turned back, Ah Jue would choose not to get to know Yao Qiyun. Yao Qiyun felt inferior from beginning to end. When Ajue asked him if he believed her, he walked away, as heartbroken as written. After seven years of absence, maybe I should learn from you and leave resolutely. They don't believe or understand, and even look at themselves with disgust like outsiders. Ah Jue, you met Zou Jin. It doesn't matter whether it was good or bad. What's important is that he helped you leave this place. It's time for me to leave after two years.

Situ and Wu Jiang got married, and Shaocheng's husband died. It is written in another book

Waiting for you in the memories, Situ Jue woke up from the sweet dream she had at the airport. No one knows what she dreamed about, but I believe it is her best memory: the love-hate relationship with Yao Qiyun, the friendship with Wu Jiang's childhood sweetheart, and the happy and warm family of her parents... But in the end she woke up, and she had to return to reality. Why didn't she want to wait for her beauty in these memories forever? However, she will always be the one who will be severely slapped by reality: in her senior year, the unruly Situ seems to have everything she wants, but she doesn't know that there is a sanctimonious mentor behind it. Teacher Gao accepts her and encourages her on the surface, but secretly blackmails her thousands of times. Teacher Zou obviously likes her and helps her, but he doesn't know that all of this has severely harmed her! Tan Shaocheng, the epitome of a bitch who will appear in everyone's life, who knows how pitiful and pitiful he is to pretend to be a snake and a scorpion! She always has a low self-esteem and is full of lies and scheming. She can never get rid of her jealousy of Situ. Poor people must be hateful. Even if she tried her best to plan a comprehensive conspiracy with Zou's doctoral students and Gao, letting all the students in the school see the pornographic photos and see the shady secrets of postgraduate and scholarship guarantees. In the end, Situ was wronged and disgraced and moved away. She forced Qu Xiaowan to commit suicide and hanged himself in the dormitory. Did she show him his fiancée's abortion certificate before Wu Jiang got married? So what? The reason why Tan Shaocheng could not survive Situ was because she would always live for others. She was born into a poor family, but what makes people look down on her the most is that she uses this to win everyone's sympathy so that she can do whatever she can to do evil! In fact, no one ever said that she was poor or shabby from beginning to end, but she had always looked down on herself. Speaking of Situ's parents, some people may not understand that she decided to go abroad for such a scandal, but it is obvious that Situ was deeply hurt by her parents' distrust. If blood cannot make them believe in their daughter's innocence, then what reason is there to stay in such a cold world? I understand that Situ's parents are always strict, and I understand that they are polite to their adopted son Yao Qiyun compared to their shameless education of their daughter. I just don't understand. At a time when such a terrifying rumor crisis hits hard, Situ and his wife choose to doubt their biological daughter indiscriminately? It is true that she has embarrassed the Situ family outside, but can we give her a chance to explain? Perhaps Situ Jiu'an always had a patriarchal mindset, and the Yao Qiyun he "picked up" was a son after all. No matter how many Yao Qiyun, Tan Shaocheng, and beast instructor hurt her Situ, it would be nothing. After calling her parents for more than 20 years, who could accept such a knife? With just one slap, Situ, who was once a proud and prosperous man, made up his mind to leave. No matter how embarrassed he was, it was better than living without dignity. And Yao Qiyun thought that he was really waiting for Situ in his memories. No matter whether he goes or stays after that car accident, or becomes a vegetative state and lives between life and death, I hope that his dreams and my beautiful memories of them will never be shattered and never wake up. Maybe in the dream, he stayed in real life for himself or for Situ Jue. The small room he built was filled with Situ's old things and their memories. There was an illusory Situ Jue in it, and he would never wake up. Every reader including Situ knows that Tan Shaocheng is a bad guy! Only you, Yao Qiyun, doesn't know! When Situ needs trust the most, it's you. You have never believed her. If you don't trust her, it's just a cold world. But from the time she took you to the time-traveling coffee shop to the final incident of the security research and unspoken rules, Yao Qiyun must have always doubted Situ. However, everyone loved Situ Jue, including Yao Qiyun, and he was the one who loved her the most. "Ajue, I still love you after all these years." It's not that Situ didn't feel it, but the moment you followed Tan Shaocheng seven years ago, Situ didn't want to get involved in this "accident." Yes, it was an accident, just like what Situ wrote, "If you go back in time, never fall in love with a person named Yao Qiyun." But as a reader, I believe and love the relationship between Situ and Yao Qiyun. Just like I liked the relationship between Chen Xiaozheng and Zheng Wei in "To Youth", I like this kind of heart-wrenching and entangled relationship. Of course, Chen Xiaozheng is much more selfish than Yao Qiyun. Even though Yao Qiyun lacks trust and security, he is sincere and can no longer love Situ with more love. His deep affection is contained in the trivial concerns in life. It is not expressed in words, but it is so deep that it makes readers breathless. "I bet you won't be happy" Situ Luo left after saying these words. Yes, it has been seven years. Yao Qiyun has been living in the entanglement of thinking about Situ every day. Will he be happy? There are so many heartless people, but there are also a few infatuated people. Sometimes Yao Qiyun is strange, not because of his status as Situ, but because of his status as an adopted son, wanting to be with his adoptive parents' daughter, as he said himself, makes him feel uncomfortable and uneasy like stealing. How can young love be so easy to become popular? Desperate? Everyone always has his own helplessness, forgive Yao Qiyun, forgive him for not feeling safe, forgive him for not trusting Situ, forgive him for having a relationship with Tan Shaocheng for some reason because he really loves Situ, he loves him so much that he wants to explode. By the way, there is also Wujiang. Leaving aside his love for Ruan Ruan, thank him for always appearing next to Situ, making me believe that there is pure male-female friendship in the world, and Situ is the only one with him. I am very grateful that Xinyiwu put them together in the end. This is probably the best arrangement. Of course, the last of these are not covered in this book, but you have to know that Xinyiwu always likes to string together every book, and every book is related and has guest appearances, so you really have to read every one!

Yao Qiyun is not worthy of Situ's love for him. If there is not even the most basic trust between lovers, it will be meaningless no matter how much they give to each other.

That is, Situ and Qiyun had sex in the toilet during their wedding in Wujiang. It was impossible to have protective measures in that situation. Then the ending may be: Situ went abroad, or to be precise, fled abroad. Because she didn't dare to face anything happening to Qiyun. But abroad, she learned that Qiyun miraculously survived, but lost her fertility as a result. After three months of confusion, Situ found himself nauseous and wanted to vomit one day, only to find out that he was pregnant, and the child was Qiyun. Situ was determined to give birth to the child and began to raise it alone until the child was three years old and returned to China. After experiencing some disasters, the Situ family is no longer the same Situ with a prominent family fortune, but they cherish each other even more because of it. Situ's parents also understood in their hearts that nothing is more important than flesh and blood. No matter what their daughter has done, she will always be their true love as long as she wants to look back. His parents loved this child very much. After all, he was a descendant of the Situ family, and they didn't ask too many questions about his life experience. But when the child saw Yao Qiyun and called him dad, everything seemed to understand. It turns out that Situ often taught his children to call him "Daddy" with photos of Qiyun abroad. Situ Qiyun and Situ's parents were all in tears at this time. People are like this sometimes. It is obvious that happiness can be easily achieved without financial hardship. Now think about it, if one party was willing to accommodate even a little bit, they would have to go through so much suffering.

I really don't understand why some people defend Yao Qiyun so much. On the contrary, I hate him very much. When no one else believed in Situ, he didn't choose to trust him. That's okay if he doesn't trust him. The world is so cold, but you actually held Tan Shaocheng's hand. This is unacceptable to me. Situ loves someone very simply and purely. She wants your "I love you" to reassure you, but she never has it. What Situ wants is very simple. She wants to hear Yao Qiyun's words "I believe in you, I understand" instead of "I don't care, I want you."

When I first watched it, I never really understood why Situ Jue just couldn't forgive Yao Qiyun. She could ignore what Tan Shaocheng did to her, and she could also understand that her friends shunned her when she was down and out. Maybe she has already let go of everyone who hurt her back then. However, for the person she loved deeply, she could never forget how he didn't trust her back then and how he made her escape in such a helpless situation. After returning to China, Yao Qiyun wants to meet Situ Jue again, telling Situ that he doesn't mind what happened to Situ in the past. How ironic it is. He is framed for something he didn't do. In the end, the person he loves tells him that he doesn't mind. He has never believed her in all these years, so how can she forgive her. Because of the depth of love, there is also deep hatred.