Meng Ning Ji

First love is always beautiful and innocent, but most of it cannot come to the end. The most painful thing in life is to meet the right person at the wrong age!

This book is a bit slow to read and needs to be read slowly. Although it is a bit dull, ordinary daily life is more like real life!

Love, first love, and campus are the youth I like.

Don't be surprised if the words are ugly! Writing has been ugly since I was little

As for pua, the interpretation is that by belittling the other person, she will not improve herself and only rely on herself. I think this summary is too general and I haven't considered many situations. Fortunately, I always accompany Xiao Xu to improve her. When she has to take exams, I accompany her to memorize questions and test her... I think many of them are not so-called pua, but just care too much and have a strong desire to control. It's not just boys who can pua, it's just that boys are silenced by pua. In short, after learning about pua, I am still happy. I feel that without pua Xiao Xu, I can't hurt Xiao Xu at all, so I am happy. I must not hurt that girl. After all, people are pampered by their parents, so they can't be wronged by me, right? I also silently wish you the best in my heart. I hope you can do whatever you want in the days without me. Just be yourself. Remember to be happy. Hello, I am happy too. I hope you can be happy today too~

Recently I heard a new word called pua. I start with the words of a certain netizen on Baidu, don't believe these so-called pua. The reason why this type of vocabulary did not exist before and is only rising now is actually a reflection of the common self-centered psychology of people in today's society. This is why the word "pua" is derived from this. Once Such words will quickly cater to the psychology of most people, "Yes, that's what he did to me." From then on, such words will quickly elevate the concept of "self-centered" to the level of truth, so everyone will fall into trouble, and eventually interpersonal relationships will usher in a cold winter. A society that cannot tolerate anyone except yourself. Of course, it's not just pua. In fact, the same goes for zodiac signs. For example, if someone talks about the personality of a zodiac sign, to be honest, you can get two hits on a dog. The reason why the zodiac sign is accurate is because you will develop in the direction of someone's zodiac sign personality after seeing it. For example, people say that Virgos break up cleanly after breaking up, so Xiao Xu and I have been separated and reunited countless times, and we are not clean anymore. Besides, I I used to like videos showing horoscopes to Xiao Xu, because I saw people saying that Sagittarius and Virgo are not suitable, but I would find some that said they were suitable, which would also be a psychological hint for myself and Xiao Xu. For example, if I found a good match between Sagittarius and Virgo, I would send it to Xiao Xu. The most common one is that Virgo's favorite is given to Sagittarius. Many people who talk about zodiac signs have sent this to Xiao Xu. Hhh, this is a trick from me. I recalled everything I had with Xiao Xu and realized that I probably didn't pua her anymore. After hearing this word, I quickly checked it out. I was afraid that I had done something wrong in love. If it was pua Xiao Xu, I would feel guilty.

After asking around, Liu Chen found out that the freshman in high school knew a few seniors in high school. It was difficult to deal with the seniors in high school, but it was still possible. Liu Chen didn't give up and told his brothers to get ready for a big fight. Liu Chen also told the news to the other seniors in high school and sophomores. Generally, they knew people in their own grade. Liu Chen's brothers also called a lot of people. Liu Chen did not dare to tell Xu Ning about this, and had agreed in advance to ask the people around her to stop her and not let her go. There were more than a dozen people from the senior year, and the sophomores were in their twenties and thirties. As for the first year, they had better not participate in this kind of battlefield. Liu Chen gave an order, and everyone swarmed up, and dense fists fell like raindrops, echoing with sticks and legs. Liu Chen was also in the front, and Wang Li's clothes were torn, but they still won in the end. The numerical advantage caused countless people to fall, but in the end Liu Chen still stood. Liu Chen looked at the blood on his arm and simply dealt with it. When Xu Ning came back to check, he also discovered that Xu Ning was furious about this matter. Liu Chen tried to coax her for a long time but couldn't get it right. In desperation, Liu Chen came like a clown to make Xu Ning laugh and pestered Xu Ning, saying I was wrong, I was wrong, I don't dare to do it anymore, Liu Chen said You know, as long as Xu Ning doesn't mention breaking up, it means that she also wants to get along, but she is just angry at what Liu Chen did. It is indeed wrong to fight, and there are great risks. Xu Ning is also worried about him, and the humble Liu Chen looks pitiful in front of Xu Ning, begging for forgiveness. After this incident, Liu Chen really didn't dare to fight again. It was just a small fight and the subordinates would come forward. The main purpose is to accompany Xu Ning, coax her, and listen to her words. Have you become strict with your wife at such a young age? No, you don't understand! Liu Chen and his brothers looked at each other and smiled!

Nowadays, the so-called PUA is known as a means of manipulating emotions and heart, and suppressing personality. Of course, everyone is asked to be firm in their own values and not to be brainwashed easily~ Nowadays, this society is very feminist. Of course, there may be some places where men are the majority, but most of them have implemented gender equality and have developed in the direction of women. For example, many TV dramas now are not like the male domineering CEOs in the past, but more of the heroines and female CEOs. (In politics, men are indeed the majority. Of course, this is not a special case, it is not just China) Today's girls must strengthen their judgment and not fall into the trap of pua. Although I say this, I did not say that there is no such situation, pua, and pua not only appears in female victims, but also in men, but men rarely talk about it. Suddenly, the word PUA seems to be given to any place where social relationships exist. Criticisms from teachers and parents are called PUA, criticism from superiors is called PUA, and intrigues in the dormitory are called PUA. Even couples who quarrel or break up are PUA by scumbags. In fact, this is just something you should experience in this society. It may be bad, but you will definitely grow up for it. I know that being said is a bad thing and will make you unhappy. You might as well think differently and think about it, whether the criticism from teachers and parents is also a mistake you have made. As for the criticism from superiors, ignore it because of intrigues in the dormitory. Maybe it is also your own problem. Try to remedy it if you can. So what if you can't? Just ignore it! Did you hear that, Xiao Xu, hhh, if you don't have a good relationship with your roommate, don't get upset. No matter whose problem it is, roommates are not necessarily friends, right? Of course, my roommates must be friends. The boys' dormitory is not as troublesome as the girls' dormitory. Most of the girls I know have bad dormitory relationships, and Xiao Xu is not the only one. Maybe it's not the fault of each other that we don't have a good relationship in the dormitory, maybe it's just that we don't have the fate to be friends! I once advised Xiao Xu, saying that maybe a friend you have a good relationship with becomes your roommate, not as good as your current roommate. Of course, I'm not saying that Xiao Xu's roommate is not good. I don't know what happened between Xiao Xu and her roommate, so I dare not draw any conclusions, especially since one of her roommates was my high school classmate. Perhaps because of this, Xiao Xu didn't tell me too much about the relationship between the dormitories. Of course, it could be that I was overthinking it, and Xiao Xu didn't want to talk to me about the dormitory. There is one thing about Xiao Xu that I don't understand, that is, after she told others about her unhappiness, she didn't want to tell me about it. According to Xiao Xu, once she said it once, she didn't want to say it a second time. What em said, as her boyfriend at the time, I still hoped that she would talk to me, not friends, not friends of the opposite sex.