Make a Living First, Then Find Love
by Li Xiaoyi
About This Novel
Writer Li Xiaoyi posed a sharp question to all urban women: Who is more important, making a living or finding love? In the book, she tells the stories of many different women, from Princess Diana, Chanel, Teresa Teng, Maggie Cheung to her neighbors, former colleagues and makeup artists, pointing out the minefields of life for you and taking you to a warm and safe shore. She wants to say to all women: Only when you live a wonderful life, no longer worry about gains and losses, no longer want to please anyone, no longer timid about difficulties, and no longer hesitant to look forward and backward, can you become a respectable and independent woman, with a soft appearance and a tough heart. Good girl, please make a living first and then seek love.
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Official(258)Scraped 21d ago
I have been married for less than a year and have a daughter who is just six months old. The husband is determined to get a divorce. I was immersed in the great sadness of having a bleak future and a hopeless life. After reading this book, I still feel powerless.
Make a living first, then find love. I wrote my heartfelt opinion, first let yourself become an excellent person before you can find another excellent partner. You must learn to love yourself, let yourself have cultivation, temperament, and self-cultivation, and do not need financial support from others. Only then can I love what I love and hate what I hate without having to wrong myself. This book is well written and is worth reading and feeling by you and me.
To be honest, I have always thought that love is about giving what I can give to the other person, but I have never thought about whether what I give is what the other person needs. This may be the reason why I have paid so much but cannot move the other person! This is a really good book, it has changed my view on love!
"Do you want to listen to the truth? Because you don't have much, but you want too much; you are not that good, but your heart is as high as the sky. Looking for you as a girlfriend is not cost-effective - the heartbreaking truth!
In our life, everyone is a passer-by, only we are our hometown.
The first book I bought with money was for my sister to see
It was the first time in my life that I spent money to read a book, and it did not disappoint me. It was worth reading, the content was resonant, and it was very rewarding.
What can be told in one chapter takes up a book
The text revealed to me this feeling: In fact, the author's thoughts are also being held hostage by many things, and he keeps moving forward, faster and faster, and more and more blindly. The economic foundation is the foundation of all the upper class. There is no need to use so many examples to prove this truth. On the contrary, I think it is much more reliable for women to find their own strength from within than these so-called role models.
It is very good. It provides important thinking and reference for our own lives. It teaches us how to face some unsatisfactory things in life and provides great inspiration. It also provides reference for our own life in choosing a spouse. I like this book very much.
Make a living first, then find love
If this book is available in the market, I will definitely buy it and collect it
This is not a book review, because I haven't finished reading this book, but I still want to say: Isn't it said that confident people are the most beautiful? Why is it wrong to feel that you are excellent? Although you don't have much, you are still alive. When you are alive, you have the confidence to live better. The first step is self-affirmation. . . . . . . I don't feel anything wrong with your little girlfriend. After all, she lives confidently. . . . . . .
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Official(258)Scraped 21d ago
I have been married for less than a year and have a daughter who is just six months old. The husband is determined to get a divorce. I was immersed in the great sadness of having a bleak future and a hopeless life. After reading this book, I still feel powerless.
Make a living first, then find love. I wrote my heartfelt opinion, first let yourself become an excellent person before you can find another excellent partner. You must learn to love yourself, let yourself have cultivation, temperament, and self-cultivation, and do not need financial support from others. Only then can I love what I love and hate what I hate without having to wrong myself. This book is well written and is worth reading and feeling by you and me.
To be honest, I have always thought that love is about giving what I can give to the other person, but I have never thought about whether what I give is what the other person needs. This may be the reason why I have paid so much but cannot move the other person! This is a really good book, it has changed my view on love!
"Do you want to listen to the truth? Because you don't have much, but you want too much; you are not that good, but your heart is as high as the sky. Looking for you as a girlfriend is not cost-effective - the heartbreaking truth!
In our life, everyone is a passer-by, only we are our hometown.
The first book I bought with money was for my sister to see
It was the first time in my life that I spent money to read a book, and it did not disappoint me. It was worth reading, the content was resonant, and it was very rewarding.
What can be told in one chapter takes up a book
The text revealed to me this feeling: In fact, the author's thoughts are also being held hostage by many things, and he keeps moving forward, faster and faster, and more and more blindly. The economic foundation is the foundation of all the upper class. There is no need to use so many examples to prove this truth. On the contrary, I think it is much more reliable for women to find their own strength from within than these so-called role models.
It is very good. It provides important thinking and reference for our own lives. It teaches us how to face some unsatisfactory things in life and provides great inspiration. It also provides reference for our own life in choosing a spouse. I like this book very much.
Make a living first, then find love
If this book is available in the market, I will definitely buy it and collect it
This is not a book review, because I haven't finished reading this book, but I still want to say: Isn't it said that confident people are the most beautiful? Why is it wrong to feel that you are excellent? Although you don't have much, you are still alive. When you are alive, you have the confidence to live better. The first step is self-affirmation. . . . . . . I don't feel anything wrong with your little girlfriend. After all, she lives confidently. . . . . . .
