Don't Be Anxious, I Will Give You All the Years You Want
About This Novel
"Vicious Grandma CC", the super popular one on Douban, has the meanest tongue, and is the leader of the poisonous cult, and has the most spicy opinions. 80,000 Words of content that have never been published on Douban are available for the first time. A female man in life, but with a glass heart when writing a book, he gives a domineering interpretation of love, betrayal, injury, daily necessities and daily necessities. The words are sharp but use gentle strokes to repair the wounds you encounter in the social jungle life. Reject mysticism, refuse to make you happy, and tell the secret truth of life from the bottom of your heart. If it cannot train you to be stronger inside, at least it will give you comfort. Everything in the world has its time to come and go. If you are not hurt, the years will be fine. If there is a miracle in the world, it is another name for hard work. You just need to wait slowly. Reading this book can calm your mind, fill you with positive energy, and lead a life the way you like.
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Official(71)Scraped 22d ago
Wang Anshi has a saying: "If I try my best and fail to achieve it, I have no regrets. Who can ridicule me?" You have studied it and may memorize it very well, but do you really understand what he means? If reality cannot allow us to win with fairness and justice, then at least we must lose with a clear conscience.
One day you will find that it is useless to be anxious. It is better to treat everything calmly and gracefully, whether it is pain, joy, gain, setbacks... Every bit is something worth experiencing and cherishing. Just like if I didn't have the anxiety and low self-esteem in my adolescence, I wouldn't be able to have the indifference and detachment I have today. I understand that nothing can come in a hurry, and time will give you everything.
We have different opinions and cannot completely agree with each other.
The author emphasizes that you love yourself, you are good enough, ignore the imperfect self in the mirror, etc. Actually, I don't agree with it. I think it is because you are not perfect or good enough that you will envy others. Sometimes we do some things not just because of jealousy and envy, but because we want to make ourselves what we like, and those who are jealous or envious of us are exactly what we want to be. Just like I am fat and I envy others, but I also lose weight, not because I feel bad about myself, but because I face myself and become what I like. That way I will be happier, or really happy. It doesn't mean that we are dissatisfied with something about ourselves, or that we have low self-esteem and do not recognize ourselves.
Sometimes, being disappointed is no big deal. Some people can think clearly and hold on, while some people take things too far and drive themselves crazy.
Can you really give me all the years I want?
I used to be in a hurry to get my certificate, get married, have children, and take care of my children. Every day was in a hurry. Now that I'm divorced at the age of 30, I'm taking my time to think about these issues. Fortunately, it's not too late.
The rain kept falling, knocking down the flowers all over the ground
It's really good to read. I appreciate the author's literary talent, humor and philosophy.
Okay, okay!
Very good! Very good! Ha ha
I like it so much, I understand every corner of my heart
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Official(71)Scraped 22d ago
Wang Anshi has a saying: "If I try my best and fail to achieve it, I have no regrets. Who can ridicule me?" You have studied it and may memorize it very well, but do you really understand what he means? If reality cannot allow us to win with fairness and justice, then at least we must lose with a clear conscience.
One day you will find that it is useless to be anxious. It is better to treat everything calmly and gracefully, whether it is pain, joy, gain, setbacks... Every bit is something worth experiencing and cherishing. Just like if I didn't have the anxiety and low self-esteem in my adolescence, I wouldn't be able to have the indifference and detachment I have today. I understand that nothing can come in a hurry, and time will give you everything.
We have different opinions and cannot completely agree with each other.
The author emphasizes that you love yourself, you are good enough, ignore the imperfect self in the mirror, etc. Actually, I don't agree with it. I think it is because you are not perfect or good enough that you will envy others. Sometimes we do some things not just because of jealousy and envy, but because we want to make ourselves what we like, and those who are jealous or envious of us are exactly what we want to be. Just like I am fat and I envy others, but I also lose weight, not because I feel bad about myself, but because I face myself and become what I like. That way I will be happier, or really happy. It doesn't mean that we are dissatisfied with something about ourselves, or that we have low self-esteem and do not recognize ourselves.
Sometimes, being disappointed is no big deal. Some people can think clearly and hold on, while some people take things too far and drive themselves crazy.
Can you really give me all the years I want?
I used to be in a hurry to get my certificate, get married, have children, and take care of my children. Every day was in a hurry. Now that I'm divorced at the age of 30, I'm taking my time to think about these issues. Fortunately, it's not too late.
The rain kept falling, knocking down the flowers all over the ground
It's really good to read. I appreciate the author's literary talent, humor and philosophy.
Okay, okay!
Very good! Very good! Ha ha
I like it so much, I understand every corner of my heart
